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In case you’ve ever wondered… Condoms definitely DO have an effect on how long you can expect to last during sex.  And here’s how you can use that to your advantage…

But before I get into that let me just cover the fundamentals.

Firstly, if you don’t know how to put on a condom properly then read this article now called Sunday Sex Ed Tips: Condoms.

Secondly, whether or not you practise safe sex is totally down to you.  I am not here to tell you how to live your life or claim that I am a doctor who is making any medical recommendations, but my personal opinion is that you should always wear a condom for health and safety purposes if you are not 100% certain of the person you are with or if you don’t want to risk pregnancy.

With that stuff said… Let me get to the point of this post

The way in which wearing condoms effects premature ejaculation is as follows…

One of the main causes of premature ejaculation is “over-stimulation”.

In other words, when you experience more stimulation than you can handle in a very short period of time that’s when premature ejaculation happens.

So if you can reduce the stimulation you experience down to a more controllable level then naturally you can last longer.

Side note:  I am in NO way saying you should take the pleasure out of sex.  I am just saying that if you orgasm early because of overwhelming pleasure then there’s no harm in reducing the stimulation you experience slightly so you can have the LONG-TERM satisfaction of long-lasting sex, rather than less than a minute’s worth of super-intense pleasure.

And how does this “over-stimulation” concept relate to condoms?

Well when you wear a condom the overall stimulation you experience is reduced.

This is why some men prefer sex without a condom, because they feel more.

But if you struggle with premature ejaculation then wearing a condom can work in your favour.  Since by wearing a condom you reduce the stimulation you experience it’s easier to last longer.

So there you have it.

Not only do condoms keep you safe from disease and unwanted pregnancy, they also help you last longer in bed.

And if you want to last even longer then you can get some thicker condoms to reduce the sensation even more.

But you’ll want to be sure to find the balance between lasting longer and how much pleasure you get, because the goal is not to make it so you feel nothing during sex, but you do want to take your pleasure levels down to a controllable level so you can at least enjoy long-lasting sex.

Alternatively, if you don’t want to use condoms as a “crutch” for lasting longer then you can learn some 100% natural techniques like the ones in this article on How Can I Last Longer In Bed?

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A recent article I read inspired me to write this post.  For anyone thinking of dabbling in sex with an ex here’s my take on the essential precautions you must take…

The first thing I’d recommend if you’re considering “rekindling the flame” with an ex is to read this article called 5 Tips for Sex with the Ex.

It’s a great article, and it’s what inspired me to write this post.

The thing that struck me while reading it was that I noticed an underlying theme that I’ve come across many times before when it comes to dating, relationships, sex, etc.

And that underlying theme is to just take things easy.

Play it cool.

Don’t get overexcited and stress too much too soon.

Don’t make mountains out of molehills.

For example in the article I was just talking about the second tip is “Sex does not equal love”.

What this means is if you go back to have sex with an ex, don’t instantly assume that you’ve suddenly fallen in love again and now you’re going to spend the rest of your lives together.

This is the exact OPPOSITE of playing it cool.

If you were to react like that then you’d probably push your ex away FAST.

Whereas if you play it cool then you probably wouldn’t scare them away and then if you wanted to you could always slowly develop your relationship to take things more seriously again if you wanted to.

Although this is a blog mainly focussed on helping men last longer in bed, I wanted to talk about this because every little thing you do spills over to other areas of your life.

Which means that if you don’t play it cool when you go to have sex with your ex then the chances are that you don’t play it cool when you have sex full stop.

And if you don’t play it cool when you have sex then you’re much more likely to experience premature ejaculation, because being tense and nervous are MASSIVE triggers for premature ejaculation.

The bottom line is play it cool in your relationships and sex, at least at the start (because you can always get more intense later on), and you will be rewarded.

And if you’re looking for some more “tangible” tips for lasting longer in bed, in other words, actual strategies and techniques you can use then you’ll want to check out this article on Premature Ejaculation Cures.

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Being good at foreplay can mean the difference between getting your woman to orgasm within minutes of sex and having her NEVER orgasm.  Here’s how to get your woman super-horny before you start having sex…

Firstly you’ve got to realize how women work differently.  As this article called Sex Tips: Know More About Foreplay puts it, women and men are totally different when it comes to arousal.

Men are like light bulbs and women are like irons.  We can be turned on and off instantly, but women need to be turned on gradually over time.

So how can you use this to your advantage?

Well firstly, take a moment to get into her shoes.  Imagine how you would view sex if it wasn’t a yes or no decision, but rather something that happened over time.

The first thing you’d realize is that you’d have to be in the mood to want to go ahead with it…

Sound familiar?

Because if a woman is not in the mood for sex… She is not in the mood for sex, and no amount of verbal persuasion can change that.

As men we’ve all been there, wanting sex, but our woman doesn’t want it, because she doesn’t feel like it.

It can be frustrating to us because it’s difficult to understand how she feels because we can get turned on in an instant.

But there’s also a flip side to this…

If we understand what women are like we can learn from it.

And the first thing to realize is that since you’ve got to turn her on over time… Why not start earlier?

Why not start teasing and flirting with her during the day?

Say little sexual comments to her throughout the day.

Slowly build up her anticipation for sex.

This way when it finally comes to physical foreplay she’ll already be incredibly excited and you’ll be much less likely to run into the roadblock of “I’m not in the mood”.

You’ll be amazed at the difference this little trick has on your sex life.

And what’s even better is that if she’s really horny she’ll orgasm a lot faster so you have to worry less about how long you last.

But if you are still interested in lasting longer then you’ll want to check out this article on How To Last Long In Bed… This article combined with incredible foreplay is like dynamite for your bedroom skills.

If you’re in a relationship and want to avoid an affair then you better listen up, because I’m about to show how your sex life DIRECTLY impacts the chances of your woman having an affair…

I’ve just finished reading a very interesting article called The Truth About Affairs and it raised an interesting pattern that occurs in many relationships.

The pattern I’m talking about here is when over time the man starts to show less and less affection towards the woman in the relationship, whether it be physically through hugging and kissing or just through general compliments, etc.

And as a result the woman reacts by withdrawing sex, as a subconscious way of punishing the man, but also because she feels less like having sex because she feels less loved.

Naturally the man gets more disappointed by this and is less affectionate and the woman reacts similarly.

In the end it’s a negative spiral, until one person in the relationship meets someone else who fulfils all their needs and makes them feel special and BAM… An affair starts.

So as negative as this whole pattern might seem, it can be easily avoided.

And as the man in the relationship it all comes down to showing affection.

If you can be sure to show plenty of affection all the way through your relationship your woman will have no reason to withdraw sex.

And on top of that… If you have the skills to last long in bed and deliver her incredible pleasure she’ll have EVEN LESS reason to withdraw sex, because it will be such a huge source of pleasure for her.

It’s win-win.

Now the “how to” of showing affection is obvious, you just give her compliments, pay attention to her, listen to her and show her physical affection as often as possible.

But the “how to” of lasting longer in bed is less obvious. So if you’re not sure of exactly how to pull this off you may want to check out this article that includes 7 expert tips for instant-results on ending premature ejaculation…  It’s called Last Long In Bed.

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