sex mistakes

Copying porn moves will only lead to disaster. Here are the reasons why.

Copying porn moves will only lead to disaster. Here are the reasons why.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already had the experience of watching porn. There’s even a chance that you’re checking one out right now.

Now while looking at porn is one thing, copying the moves you see in them when you and your lover are heating things up in the bedroom is a different story. And it’s just going to end up in disaster, too.

So if you’re planning to jazz up your sex sessions with a touch of porn, here are some reasons why it’s going to be a bad idea…

They’re only acting.

Let’s kick things off with the most obvious reason of all.

The actors and actresses that you see in porn movies are only doing their job and that is to act.

This basically means that the emotions that they’re showing in front of the camera may be slightly or totally different from what they are really feeling during a particular scene.

And you can easily imagine the fiasco that will take place when you copy a porn move that you think will make your partner feel good, but will have a conflicting effect on her.

Cameras roll and stop the whole time.

Akin to other movies, porn flicks involve cameras rolling and stopping all the time.

The director can easily halt or resume a scene each time he thinks something gets awry or perhaps needing a few improvements.

Given the fact that you can’t do these when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets, there’s a very big possibility that things won’t go like you expected when you copy a certain porn move during your sex session.

They favor “aesthetic” positions.

Each scene in a porn flick is carefully planned to be as erotic as possible.

Besides picking out sexual positions that show as much of the actress’s vagina and breasts as possible, it also highlights the actual penetration as it is taking place.

And believe me, most – if not all – of them are rather uncomfortable when used in real life sex. Sure lovemaking is pleasurable, but the sensations she’s going to experience are anything but when you use them.

The actors and actresses are paid to do it.

And the best reason why copying porn moves during sex is a bad idea? The people that are in them are paid to do their stuff.

Just try to convince your lover that you’d like to try something you saw in porn “for the experience” and you’ll be almost immediately get rejected by her.

(But here’s a breast stimulation technique that will surely help knock her socks off when you’re already at it in bed.)

She'll enjoy sex more if you keep clear from these mistakes...

She’ll enjoy sex more if you keep clear from these mistakes…

If you’re anything like most men, chances are your biggest priority when things get hot between the sheets is giving your lover an experience she won’t forget anytime soon.

However, a lot of guys seem to forget a few key mistakes that can make sex not as awesome for their partners.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are so you’ll always give her the satisfaction she wants when you two get the action going in bed:

Miss out on her mental stimulation.

A woman’s sexual arousal isn’t an instant thing like a man’s.

It unfolds in stages like an engine and if the gears aren’t properly set in motion, there is a big possibility that she won’t be totally into it.

And this will make it rather tricky for her to enjoy the whole thing, which can also affect her ability to achieve orgasm while you two are at it.

Stimulating a woman mentally isn’t something that’s complicated, too. One simple way you can pull this off is sending her naughty messages on her mobile phone or email.

Go straight to her clitoris.

I’m pretty sure that the clitoris is the key erogenous zone you go for to really fire up your lover during sex.

Although it’s practically packed with thousands and thousands of sensitive nerve endings that can churn out a lot of pleasurable sensations, the clitoris has to be prepped up properly before it can start doing this.

See, making a beeline straight to the clitoris when the bedroom action starts will only make your partner feel uncomfortable, even to the point of pain.

Focus on your lover’s other erogenous zones first like the lips and breasts to warm her up. Chances are she’ll even be the one directing you south of her border anytime soon.

Boss her into doing things she doesn’t like.

Sure you have things in your sexual bucket list that you’d like to realize sooner or later, but bossing your lover to achieve them will simply disrupt her mood for the old squeaky-squeaky.

Make it a point to ask her nicely when it comes to anal sex and other bedroom stuff that isn’t on your regular lovemaking checklist.

And no “oops-I-accidentally-put-it-in-there” shtick either!

You only think about your pleasure.

Giving your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon won’t be happening if you are only taking your pleasure in consideration.

Make her pleasure your top priority and you’ll be surprised how much she’ll enjoy the experience.

So you'd like to make your lover more sexually aroused when you two are getting frisky...

So you’d like to make your lover more sexually aroused when you two are getting frisky…

Getting a woman really sexually aroused not only guarantees that the pleasure she experiences during lovemaking will be mind-blowing, but also makes it easier for her to achieve an orgasm.

Now while you may already be quite familiar with the things that never fail to get your lover going between the sheets, there are also mistakes that can ruin her sexual mood in no time.

So if you’re looking to really get her freak on the next time you’re feeling frisky, make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are…

You don’t clean your bedroom.

I know this sounds very surprising, but not giving your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it really deserves can greatly affect your lover’s sexual arousal when you two are getting at it.

This is because women need to be very relaxed to reach their sexual arousal peak. Unless they get to this point, there is a chance that their sexual arousal won’t be that intense. When her sexual arousal isn’t that intense, she will have a difficult time getting an orgasm, too.

And one of the biggest ways you can ruin a woman’s relaxation is giving her an eyeful of dust and clutter. Making cleaning and organizing a mainstay in your regular schedule will easily do the trick.

You don’t let her decide how your sex session will play out.

Although your lover tends to be submissive when things get steamy in bed, giving her the chance to call the shots during sex is a very exciting experience for her to the point of taking her sexual arousal off the charts.

Besides making your partner feel that you value her sexual ideas, allowing her to be the boss in the bedroom also encourages her to become more sexually adventurous while at it. How’s that for two for two?

You don’t ask her what she wants

Come to think of it, your lover basically knows all the best stuff that will get her going in bed. Just imagine what you’re missing out if you don’t ask her to guide you what she wants during sex.

Simply think about how easily she’ll reach the Big O when you do this as well.

Whether it’s the way you kiss or perhaps the technique you use when you go down on your partner, you’re definitely going to see a significant change in her sexual arousal when you consult her first before you turn up the heat in the bedroom.

Read this to know a few mistakes you need to avoid during sex...

Read this to know a few mistakes you need to avoid during sex and really give her an amazing time…

If you’re a guy reading this, chances are you’d like to really give your lover an amazing time between the sheets when you two are feeling frisky.

However, did you know that there’s a chance you may be overlooking a few key things that can greatly affect her pleasure during sex even to the point that it’s already being uncomfortable for her?

Make sure you read on so you’ll know what to keep clear of so you’ll give your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon…

You neglect to prep up the bedroom.

I know this one sounds a bit odd to be in here, but making it a point to keep your bedroom clean and organized has a big effect on your lover’s sexual pleasure.

See, a woman’s sexual arousal depends on how her brain can produce and release mood-altering hormones. The more of these hormones are churned out, the more sexually aroused she will be.

And the more pleasurable the experience will be for her.

However, the brain puts out sexual arousal-sapping stress hormones the moment your partner feels that something is amiss when you’re getting in action like a dusty bed or perhaps dirty clothes cluttering the floor.

You rush things.

Unlike guys that can get ready for sex at a drop of a hat, women need some time to really get in the mood for some action in the bedroom.

And one of the mistakes most men seem to overlook when it comes to lovemaking is taking things fast and furious between the sheets. Besides preventing your lover from sufficiently getting ready in bed, she won’t be enjoying the action like she wants as well.

Interestingly, that’s even when you’re already putting on your A-game.

Make it a point to take things as slow and easy as you can to really get her going in the bedroom.

(Here are a few foreplay tips you should also take into consideration that can help you pull it off.)

You don’t communicate with her.

Who would be the best person to consult when it comes to the things that take her sexual pleasure off the charts than your lover herself?

Remember to talk to her as you go along. Make sure you ask her the things she wants you to do as well as the speed and rhythm of the techniques you’re planning to use in the process.

This easily guarantees that you’ll make her reach the Big O as you go along. Even again and again if you play your cards right.