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There are a lot of misconceptions and myths about sex floating around in the world and here’s how to avoid succumbing to them…

Now what inspired this blog post was an article I just read called 9 Sex ‘Rules’ To Break Tonight.

And the fact is that as we grow up and learn more about sex we tend to pick up and believe things about sex that are just plain wrong.

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The truth about sex is often hard to figure out

And when we let these misconceptions and myths about sex run our sex lives they can cause some serious damage…

We can end up not enjoying sex or not being able to make our partner happy just because we have a false belief that doing a certain thing is wrong.

Let me give you a specific example…

One of the 9 sex myths featured in the article I mentioned was “porn is the enemy”.

Now I have mentioned in the past that I think when men copy the actions of male porn stars it doesn’t help their sex life.

But just watching it on the other hand I don’t personally think is a bad thing.

Especially if you do it as a couple during sex to make things more interesting.

In fact it’s a great way to add some variety and some excitement to the bedroom.

And most women will probably enjoy it if it’s presented to them in the right way.

The bottom line of what I’m trying to get across is to challenge your assumptions about sex.

Write down some of the beliefs you have about sex and take a moment to think about where they came from and if they’re really helping support you in having an incredible sex life.

It’ll make a world of difference.

But before you go watching a ton of porn during sex, take a moment to read this article on how to Prevent Premature Ejaculation, because it’ll give you some important warnings of how to NOT let porn influence you in a negative way.

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Have you ever thought about what the LONG-TERM impact of watching porn is on your sex life?

Well this may shock you…

Because watching porn can have some pretty serious consequences on your ability to please a woman.

And I’m not the first one to notice this either, this article on 10 ways men can screw up in bed, describes one of the top 10 errors made by men in bed as using porn as an instructional guide.

And the reason I believe porn can have a negative effect on your sex skills is because when you watch porn you’re subconsciously feeding your mind information about how to act during sex.

Now this would be no problem if porn was designed to show the best way to make love to a woman so she experiences multiple orgasms…

But the fact is that porn is designed (99% of the time) strictly for viewing pleasure of men.

This means that most of the time the women in porn aren’t really enjoying sex and probably aren’t experiencing orgasms at the intensity that is possible (and that’s if they even experience any at all).

Now of course there will be some porn actresses that do really enjoy sex while being filmed, but my betting is that most of the women enjoy sex a lot more when it’s intimate, with someone they care about and who knows what he’s doing.

The point I’m trying to make is that don’t assume that what you see in porn is what women like and makes them satisfied in bed.

Porn is designed for the viewing pleasure of men, not for teaching men how to be unforgettable lovers.

What I’m not saying is don’t watch porn…

What I’m saying is start becoming aware of anything you learn from porn and think twice before you go ahead and assume that the things you see in porn are what women like.

The other things you should be aware of is that watching porn can also make you last less long in bed…

As strange as that might sound, it’s true and if you’d like to find out why this is and what you can do about it then check out my article on how to prevent premature ejaculation.

In the mean time drop me a comment below to let me know your thoughts on watching porn and its effects on your sex life…

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