premature ejaculation

Want to know what women REALLY think about sex and premature ejaculation?  Then check this out…

A mistake that almost ALL men make when it comes to sex is that on some level they forget to really think about what’s going on the woman’s head.

I’m not pointing fingers, because I do this too.

And the reason this happens is because it’s natural to think about everything from your own perspective…  It’s just how we humans work.

But of course thinking from our own perspective doesn’t always lead to ideal outcomes when it comes to stuff like pleasing someone else.

In order to please someone else, aka a woman in bed, you’ve got to understand what they feel and what they enjoy about sex.

And you can’t do this when you’re running on autopilot and going about your business as usual.

You actually have to stop everything you’re doing and focus solely on getting into the mind of the woman you’re going to make love to.

When you stop and take just 5 minutes to solely focus on imagining BEING her, you’ll be amazed at the stuff you’ll discover.

I don’t even have to tell you any magic techniques or tricks, because just by doing this one exercise you’ll discover things you NEVER realized about her.

You’ll discover interesting new ways of pleasuring her and what kind of things she would like you to do in bed, but would probably never tell you.

And on top of that you’ll also probably have this breakthrough…

That women have insecurities too.

And during all that time you spend worrying about premature ejaculation she’s probably worrying about her own stuff.

Articles like this one on Some Of The Sex Mistakes Women Make prove that women are worrying way more about themselves during sex than you could probably ever have thought they were before.

And when you realize this you’ll massively take the pressure off yourself and you’ll find because of taking this pressure off that lasting longer in bed is a lot easier.

Now after you take 5 minutes to get into the mind of the woman you’re going to sleep with go check out my special 3 step method on How To Last Longer In Bed.  Armed with the knowledge of how your woman works you’ll be able to use the techniques needed for lasting longer in bed with 10x more effectiveness.

In case you’ve ever wondered… Condoms definitely DO have an effect on how long you can expect to last during sex.  And here’s how you can use that to your advantage…

But before I get into that let me just cover the fundamentals.

Firstly, if you don’t know how to put on a condom properly then read this article now called Sunday Sex Ed Tips: Condoms.

Secondly, whether or not you practise safe sex is totally down to you.  I am not here to tell you how to live your life or claim that I am a doctor who is making any medical recommendations, but my personal opinion is that you should always wear a condom for health and safety purposes if you are not 100% certain of the person you are with or if you don’t want to risk pregnancy.

With that stuff said… Let me get to the point of this post

The way in which wearing condoms effects premature ejaculation is as follows…

One of the main causes of premature ejaculation is “over-stimulation”.

In other words, when you experience more stimulation than you can handle in a very short period of time that’s when premature ejaculation happens.

So if you can reduce the stimulation you experience down to a more controllable level then naturally you can last longer.

Side note:  I am in NO way saying you should take the pleasure out of sex.  I am just saying that if you orgasm early because of overwhelming pleasure then there’s no harm in reducing the stimulation you experience slightly so you can have the LONG-TERM satisfaction of long-lasting sex, rather than less than a minute’s worth of super-intense pleasure.

And how does this “over-stimulation” concept relate to condoms?

Well when you wear a condom the overall stimulation you experience is reduced.

This is why some men prefer sex without a condom, because they feel more.

But if you struggle with premature ejaculation then wearing a condom can work in your favour.  Since by wearing a condom you reduce the stimulation you experience it’s easier to last longer.

So there you have it.

Not only do condoms keep you safe from disease and unwanted pregnancy, they also help you last longer in bed.

And if you want to last even longer then you can get some thicker condoms to reduce the sensation even more.

But you’ll want to be sure to find the balance between lasting longer and how much pleasure you get, because the goal is not to make it so you feel nothing during sex, but you do want to take your pleasure levels down to a controllable level so you can at least enjoy long-lasting sex.

Alternatively, if you don’t want to use condoms as a “crutch” for lasting longer then you can learn some 100% natural techniques like the ones in this article on How Can I Last Longer In Bed?

Filed under Sex Tips by on . Comment#

I want to give you a quick warning about the premature ejaculation treatment industry…  There are a LOT of scams out there trying to push fake premature ejaculation solutions.  So in this post I want to show you what some of the warning signs are of potential scams so you don’t end up wasting any money on them…

Firstly, it’s no wonder there are companies trying to sell scam solutions claiming to cure premature ejaculation…

Premature ejaculation is an incredibly frustrating and humiliating condition for men, which means many men are willing to go a LONG way to figure out the solution…

Even if that means trying a solution they’re not 100% sure about.

One Australian “tycoon” made a fortune selling his fake solution to the Australian public, which has become known as the Advance Medical Institute Impotency Scam.

So although they caught this guy, there could well be more scammers out there.

But how can you spot these scams?!

Here are some pointers…

Do they offer a guarantee?

If they don’t there’s probably a reason for it… which is most likely that their solution doesn’t work.  Any company offering of a genuine solution to premature ejaculation would have no problem offering a guarantee because they know their customers would be happy, so watch out for anyone who doesn’t offer a guarantee.

Do they have any testimonials?

If no one else is saying their stuff works then there’s a good chance that’s because it doesn’t work and there’s no one around to tell a success story.

Does their proposed solution make sense?

With pills for example, it’s hard to figure out how taking them could change your biology so that suddenly you can last longer.

It may work, but to be honest I’ve never tried it because I don’t want to risk the potential side-effects.

This is also the reason why I like 100% natural solutions to premature ejaculation such as breathing methods and thrusting techniques…

Because the logic of how they help you last longer make perfect sense and you’re also not risking your health by doing them.

But anyway I hope that’s given you an idea of some of the things to look for in potential scams so you don’t have to waste your hard earned money on something that’s not going to help you.

And like I said, the 100% natural method is my preferred solution and you can check out one example of a natural breathing method I use to lasting longer in bed in this article on how to stop premature ejaculation.

If you’ve ever wanted to know the real definition of premature ejaculation you’ll find this pretty interesting…

There’s a lot of debate over the real definition of premature ejaculation.

One article I was reading recently said “If you spend the whole time during sex thinking about not ejaculating, that’s PE”.

Although the article was interesting, I disagree with the statement.

Personally I believe there is one definition of PE that can’t be beaten, and that is…

Premature ejaculation is any time you orgasm during sex earlier than you would like to.

Simple really.

And isn’t it true?

If you’re not lasting for as long as you want then you’ve got premature ejaculation.

You are orgasming earlier than you would like to.

Another interesting way to look at it is to say that premature ejaculation is any time you orgasm during sex before your woman does.

This means you could orgasm within 1 minute of sex, but it wouldn’t matter if she does too (which is more than possible with the right skills, by the way).

What I’m really trying to get across here is that there is no fixed time definition of PE.

Lasting 10 minutes in bed is one man’s victory, while another man’s failure.

It’s really all down to your experience of sex.

And it’s something interesting to think about.

Now in this post I really just wanted to discuss the definitions of premature ejaculation, but if you’d like to find out what causes it and what to do about it then you’ll want to check out this article on premature ejaculation.