oral sex essentials

Looking to give her an amazing experience the next time you go down on her? Read this.

Looking to give your lover an amazing experience the next time you go down on her? Read this.

I received a lot of emails from HowToLastLongInBed.com readers concerning oral sex when I checked my inbox this morning.

Apart from asking pointers on how to make the experience more pleasurable for their lovers, there were also requests for random tips on the same.

However, instead of giving tips, I decided to make this post all about oral sex essentials that you need to keep in mind to really make sure that your partner will have an amazing time the next time you go down on her.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Your bedroom should be spic and span.

Now while this may not sound like an oral sex essential at first, keeping in mind that your bedroom is clean and organized is a must if you’re looking to really give you lover an experience she won’t forget anytime soon when you explore south of her border.

This is because a woman needs to be completely calm and relaxed to really enjoy lovemaking, including oral sex. Instead of producing and releasing feel-good hormones, the brain will only churn out their stress-inducing counterparts.

And these hormones will only make your lover feel anxious and jittery the whole time, which can prevent her from really enjoying the experience.

Don’t make a beeline for her vagina and clitoris.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably think that going down on your lover is all about instantly focusing on her vagina and clitoris. However, this is actually the wrong thing to do.

Stimulating your partner down there before she’s totally warmed up for sex is only going to be an experience that’s going to be awkward and uncomfortable, if not to the point of being painful. And you don’t want her to feel like that, do you?

You can start by kissing and caressing her other sexy bits like the breasts or neck to kick things off. If you play your cards right, she’ll be ready for action in no time.

Talk to her.

Communicating with your lover when you go down on her is key if you’ like to give her an awesome time in the process. I mean, who would give you the best advice on how to do it perfectly, right?

Ask her how soft or hard you do it. Ask which specific spots she wants to be stimulated. Simply let her guide you as you go along. You’ll be very surprised how much she will enjoy the experience.