Let’s get straight to the issue right away…
You’re simply noticing that your lover is having a tricky time getting an orgasm whenever you’re heating things up between the sheets nowadays.
There’s no need to worry just yet though.
Chances are you’re simply making a few mistakes that can keep her from really taking her sexual pleasure up a notch and reaching the Big O.
Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are so you’ll boost your chances of making your partner have an orgasm each time you’re at it in bed…
Orgasm Breaker #1: You talk too much during lovemaking.
Sure I’ve emphasized in a previous post that mentally stimulating a woman is as important as working your magic on her physically.
Doing this isn’t that tough, too. Besides sending her naughty emails and text messages, giving her a description of the sexual moves you’ll do is also a good way to pull this off.
However, keep in mind not to overdo the whole thing like talking too much during sex.
This will just confuse her brain if you two are really looking to have sex or just want to have a meaningful conversation.
Orgasm Breaker #2: You don’t listen to her.
There is no other person that can gauge your lover’s pleasure, but she herself. You can consider this as a suggestion to making her your “sex sounding board.”
Listening to what she’s saying during sex can give you an idea if the things you’re doing are really hitting their mark.
Try asking her what she likes to try when you’re at it as well. Besides inquiring which erogenous zones you should focus on, asking her how she wants them to be pleasured is also a nice touch.
Orgasm Breaker #3: You go too rough.
Sure there are women who like to have things rough in the bedroom, but unless your lover says that she wants to take things to a whole new level then it’s a great idea to stay slow and easy.
And if things are getting a bit rough in your end, make it a point to put on some water-based lubricant to ensure that everything will keep on going smoothly.
Orgasm Breaker #4: You don’t let her call the shots.
Now while this may sound surprising, you are actually preventing a woman from really getting sexually aroused if you don’t give her the chance to get totally wild in the bedroom.
You’ll be surprised how easy it is for her to reach the Big O when you let her do this.