last longer in bed

If you’ve ever thought that learning how to hit her G-spot is the key to giving a woman an incredible orgasm then you need to read this…

If you don’t know what the G-spot is, it’s found inside the vagina, about 3-4 inches in and is bean shaped.

It increases in size as a woman becomes more aroused and it can be reached with your fingers.

In many communities the idea of the G-spot is passed around as the “key” to giving a woman a powerful orgasm.

But my suggestion is… Don’t buy into the hype.

I’m not the only one saying this either – this article on Female Orgasm Myths agrees with me in believing that it’s really only seen as important because men are searching for a “secret” to pleasuring a woman, when really the reason they can’t please their woman is because they haven’t put the time in to develop the fundamental skills it takes to pleasure a woman.

At the end of the day I just want to make you aware of the fact that the G-spot may not be “the answer” to figuring out how to please a woman.

A woman can be pleasured in MANY different ways.

And on top of that every woman is different.

There will indeed be some women who absolutely LOVE G-spot stimulation, but there will also be women who much prefer other forms of stimulation, whether that be their clitoris, nipples, anus or general vaginal stimulation.

The point is don’t get hung up and obsessed on figuring out “the G-spot”, because there’s a whole lot more to learning how to truly satisfy a woman.

And besides, if you can’t last long enough in bed then you shouldn’t even be THINKING about how to stimulate the G-spot during sex until you figure out how to last longer.

So before you spend any more time researching the G-spot, go check out this article that answers the question How Can I Last Longer?

You’ve probably heard of “Tantra” or “Tantric sex” before, but did you know you could use it to last longer in bed?  Let me show you how…

Getting into Tantric Sex opens up a whole other world of possibilities when it comes to sex… Way more in fact than I’ve got time to go into here, but I think knowing some basic ideas about it can help you last longer in bed…

One of the key distinctions Tantric Sex makes is that the focus of sex should not be on the end objective of orgasm, but instead the focus should be on the pleasure of the moment.

Of we both know that most people (especially men, but women too) get caught up in trying to do everything to achieve that orgasm or create it in her, while Tantric sex says this is missing the whole point of sex…

Because the point of sex is to enjoy the whole process.

And this means focussing your attention on the moment and enjoying the experience of the person you’re intimate with.

Now the way this helps you last longer in bed is as follows…

By putting your focus on enjoying the moment you relax a lot more and enjoy yourself.

Instead of worrying constantly “is she enjoying this?” “will I last long enough this time?” “is my penis big enough?” your focus is on her getting pleasure.

When your focus changes you relax a lot more…

And like I talk about in my article on how to prevent premature ejaculation, taking the pressure off yourself and not worrying about premature ejaculation can help you last significantly longer.

This really was a quick introduction to Tantric sex, but it’s well worth learning about if you want to improve the quality of your sex life.

And if you want to learn some other strategies to last longer in bed then check out this article on premature ejaculation cures.