last longer in bed

If you don’t already understand the impact of the way you masturbate on how long you last then you’ll want to watch this free video…

Because the fact is that how you masturbate can have a DRAMATIC effect on how long you last in bed.  And if you DON’T do what I highly recommend, then no matter how many other tricks, techniques or sex position you learn, premature ejaculation could be with you for life.

So check out this short video I just posted to youtube…

Want to know what women REALLY think about sex and premature ejaculation?  Then check this out…

A mistake that almost ALL men make when it comes to sex is that on some level they forget to really think about what’s going on the woman’s head.

I’m not pointing fingers, because I do this too.

And the reason this happens is because it’s natural to think about everything from your own perspective…  It’s just how we humans work.

But of course thinking from our own perspective doesn’t always lead to ideal outcomes when it comes to stuff like pleasing someone else.

In order to please someone else, aka a woman in bed, you’ve got to understand what they feel and what they enjoy about sex.

And you can’t do this when you’re running on autopilot and going about your business as usual.

You actually have to stop everything you’re doing and focus solely on getting into the mind of the woman you’re going to make love to.

When you stop and take just 5 minutes to solely focus on imagining BEING her, you’ll be amazed at the stuff you’ll discover.

I don’t even have to tell you any magic techniques or tricks, because just by doing this one exercise you’ll discover things you NEVER realized about her.

You’ll discover interesting new ways of pleasuring her and what kind of things she would like you to do in bed, but would probably never tell you.

And on top of that you’ll also probably have this breakthrough…

That women have insecurities too.

And during all that time you spend worrying about premature ejaculation she’s probably worrying about her own stuff.

Articles like this one on Some Of The Sex Mistakes Women Make prove that women are worrying way more about themselves during sex than you could probably ever have thought they were before.

And when you realize this you’ll massively take the pressure off yourself and you’ll find because of taking this pressure off that lasting longer in bed is a lot easier.

Now after you take 5 minutes to get into the mind of the woman you’re going to sleep with go check out my special 3 step method on How To Last Longer In Bed.  Armed with the knowledge of how your woman works you’ll be able to use the techniques needed for lasting longer in bed with 10x more effectiveness.

A recent article I read inspired me to write this post.  For anyone thinking of dabbling in sex with an ex here’s my take on the essential precautions you must take…

The first thing I’d recommend if you’re considering “rekindling the flame” with an ex is to read this article called 5 Tips for Sex with the Ex.

It’s a great article, and it’s what inspired me to write this post.

The thing that struck me while reading it was that I noticed an underlying theme that I’ve come across many times before when it comes to dating, relationships, sex, etc.

And that underlying theme is to just take things easy.

Play it cool.

Don’t get overexcited and stress too much too soon.

Don’t make mountains out of molehills.

For example in the article I was just talking about the second tip is “Sex does not equal love”.

What this means is if you go back to have sex with an ex, don’t instantly assume that you’ve suddenly fallen in love again and now you’re going to spend the rest of your lives together.

This is the exact OPPOSITE of playing it cool.

If you were to react like that then you’d probably push your ex away FAST.

Whereas if you play it cool then you probably wouldn’t scare them away and then if you wanted to you could always slowly develop your relationship to take things more seriously again if you wanted to.

Although this is a blog mainly focussed on helping men last longer in bed, I wanted to talk about this because every little thing you do spills over to other areas of your life.

Which means that if you don’t play it cool when you go to have sex with your ex then the chances are that you don’t play it cool when you have sex full stop.

And if you don’t play it cool when you have sex then you’re much more likely to experience premature ejaculation, because being tense and nervous are MASSIVE triggers for premature ejaculation.

The bottom line is play it cool in your relationships and sex, at least at the start (because you can always get more intense later on), and you will be rewarded.

And if you’re looking for some more “tangible” tips for lasting longer in bed, in other words, actual strategies and techniques you can use then you’ll want to check out this article on Premature Ejaculation Cures.

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I want to give you a quick warning about the premature ejaculation treatment industry…  There are a LOT of scams out there trying to push fake premature ejaculation solutions.  So in this post I want to show you what some of the warning signs are of potential scams so you don’t end up wasting any money on them…

Firstly, it’s no wonder there are companies trying to sell scam solutions claiming to cure premature ejaculation…

Premature ejaculation is an incredibly frustrating and humiliating condition for men, which means many men are willing to go a LONG way to figure out the solution…

Even if that means trying a solution they’re not 100% sure about.

One Australian “tycoon” made a fortune selling his fake solution to the Australian public, which has become known as the Advance Medical Institute Impotency Scam.

So although they caught this guy, there could well be more scammers out there.

But how can you spot these scams?!

Here are some pointers…

Do they offer a guarantee?

If they don’t there’s probably a reason for it… which is most likely that their solution doesn’t work.  Any company offering of a genuine solution to premature ejaculation would have no problem offering a guarantee because they know their customers would be happy, so watch out for anyone who doesn’t offer a guarantee.

Do they have any testimonials?

If no one else is saying their stuff works then there’s a good chance that’s because it doesn’t work and there’s no one around to tell a success story.

Does their proposed solution make sense?

With pills for example, it’s hard to figure out how taking them could change your biology so that suddenly you can last longer.

It may work, but to be honest I’ve never tried it because I don’t want to risk the potential side-effects.

This is also the reason why I like 100% natural solutions to premature ejaculation such as breathing methods and thrusting techniques…

Because the logic of how they help you last longer make perfect sense and you’re also not risking your health by doing them.

But anyway I hope that’s given you an idea of some of the things to look for in potential scams so you don’t have to waste your hard earned money on something that’s not going to help you.

And like I said, the 100% natural method is my preferred solution and you can check out one example of a natural breathing method I use to lasting longer in bed in this article on how to stop premature ejaculation.