So how much of this premature ejaculation “stuff” do you think is all in your head?
Let me tell you what I think…
Firstly, I’m never going to agree with someone who says that learning how to last longer in bed is 100% in your head.
Sometimes a new technique or thing you do physically during sex can really help you last longer in bed.
But that does NOT mean that things like your beliefs and attitude when it comes to sex don’t have an effect on how long you last.
I’ve just finished reading a very interesting blog post called 10 Ways Not to Suck in Bed and although it includes a whole bunch of actions of what to do to become better in bed, the underlying theme was to “just play it cool”…
Essentially it was saying don’t mess things up by getting too serious too fast or doing weird things you think will impress her…
Just play it cool.
Which when it comes down to it is really an ATTITUDE NOT ACTION.
And just as that article gave some attitudes needed to not suck in bed, if you want to last longer in bed you’ll need some attitudes to help you as well.
Because the truth is I can give you a whole list of “techniques” to use to last longer in bed (and of course I do give those away in many of my articles), but if your head isn’t in the right place then even if I give you the best technique in the world it probably still wouldn’t help you.
So to come full-circle you really need a combination of techniques and solid mental attitude to both last long in bed and be a great a lover.
Let me finish with a tip to help out with each…
1. To improve your mental attitude towards sex spend every day for the next month reading some positive information (like on this blog) about what to do to improve in bed. This alone will slowly transform your subconscious mind and get it to focus on what really matter when it comes to sex and as a result make you a much better lover.
2. Practice getting really good at using one particular technique per week. Doing something once is not enough to make a permanent change, you’ve got to do it a few times until it becomes internal. And you shouldn’t move on to trying a different techniques until the first one you’ve tried becomes internal. So focus on one new technique at a time and get it in your brain.
If you’re wondering what some techniques are that you can use to last longer in bed then check out this article that includes 3 premature ejaculation cures.
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