important anal sex tips

Give her an awesome anal sex experience with these tips.

Give her an awesome anal sex experience with these tips.

I’m betting that anal sex is definitely one of the things that are in your sexual bucket list.

And after a long time convincing your lover to give it a go in the bedroom, she’s finally given you the green light to include anal sex on your intimate repertoire.

But here’s the problem…

You’ve got no idea how to go about it, which can easily mean the difference between convincing your partner to have anal sex with you again and totally making her swear it off on her lovemaking checklist.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve learned a few important anal sex pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that you definitely have to take note of.

And here they are…

Stock up on lots of lube before even thinking about anal sex.

When it comes to anal sex, making sure that you’ve got the right amount of lube should be your top priority.

See, unlike the vagina that can produce natural lubrication, the anus needs a lot of help in that department since it’s incapable of doing so.

It’s important to get your hands on a lot of lube to make and keep things as smooth and easy for your partner. Can’t decide how much lube to get? Grab the amount that you think is right and double it.

Remember this one, too. When you feel that things aren’t as smooth like when you started, reapply a liberal amount of lube immediately.

Be very, very patient.

Unlike what you see in porn, it’s not uncommon that it will take a bit of time to get your penis inside your partner’s anus.

Sure the temptation will be great when it comes to simply shoving the whole thing in there, but you’ll just end up hurting her before you know it.

Keep in mind that when it comes to anal sex, slow and easy always does it.

Let her call the shots.

It’s crucial that you ask your lover to get on top of things when you’re having anal sex since you can be easily in for disaster if you only do it your way.

Ask her questions as you go along, too. Make sure that she’s feeling comfortable and properly pleasured in the process so she won’t have the notion that anal sex is only a good thing for you.

Be very conscious of her gestures as well. If she looks even the slightest hint of uncomfortable, stop and ask her what you should do to make things better.

Be sure to keep these anal sex tips in mind...

Be sure to keep these anal sex tips in mind…

So you were able to finally convince your lover to have anal sex with you…

However, there are a few very important things to keep in mind before you start getting busy to make sure that the experience is going to be as pleasurable for her as it is for you. Make sure you follow along to find out more.

Make her feel as relaxed as possible.

Relaxation is a key factor when it comes to making anal sex pleasurable for your partner. This is because she won’t be able to loosen her anus sufficiently so you can sexually penetrate it properly.

And things won’t go as they’re supposed to when this happens.

Apart from keeping your bedroom spic and span as well as maintaining ideal hygiene, you should also avoid sounding too bossy when you’re trying to get her fired up between the sheets or else things will only lead to disaster even before you got the action started.

Have a lot of lube ready.

Unlike the vagina that can produce its own lubrication, the anus needs a bit of help when doing just that. This is why you need to get your hands on a lot of lube before you start getting frisky to really make the experience pleasurable for her.

Keep in mind not to crimp up on the stuff as well. Apply the whole thing generously before and during your anal sex session. Make it a point to lube up every time you feel that things are not as smooth and slippery when you began.

Neglecting to do this can make her feel rather tender while at it. And you don’t want that to happen during anal sex since this raises the chances that she won’t be having backdoor action in her list of bedroom activities sooner or later.

Moreover, go for water-based lubricants instead of oil-based ones that can easily make the anus feel dry and sore with prolonged use.

Take things slow and easy.

When anal sex is concerned, going as slow and easy as you can is the way to go. This is because you are putting your lover at risk of having minute muscular rips in and around her anus, particularly in her sphincter muscle when you go fast and furious during the experience.

Make sure you ask your lover if you can take the speed and rhythm up a notch before doing so to ensure she won’t get hurt even a bit when doing it.