how to score a second date

You should check this out if you're looking to take her out a second time...

You should check this out if you’re looking to take her out a second time…

Convincing a woman you really like to go on another date with you won’t be a walk in the park, but it isn’t something impossible either.

Interestingly, there are actually a few simple ways to boost your chances of making her say yes to a second date.

The next time you’re out with a woman you’d like to make a positive lasting impression on, here are a some tips to keep in mind…

Pay very close attention to your grooming.

How you look and smell are the two primary factors that a woman will first notice during your date. Not paying enough attention to your grooming can greatly affect your success at going out with her the second time around.

Start off by making it a point to shower carefully and getting rid of excess facial hair. Prep up to look and smell your best to really get the job done.

Apart from making her feel that you’re sloppy, which is a definite no-no for women, her perception about you will also be negatively influenced. Sure you may be a nice guy, but looking like a hobo or smelling funky won’t cut it when you’re looking to score a second date.

The shoes and clothes matter.

Women are very particular with the clothes and shoes a guy wears during a date. Besides being two of the factors that make you look more attractive to a woman, your fashion choice will also help her pick up a few positive attributes about you without being too obvious.

See, you can show her you’re conscious about cleanliness by having neat shoes on. You can also give her the notion that you like keeping things in order by putting on a shirt or a pair of pants that’s crisply ironed.

(You should avoid wearing pants that are too tight though.)

You can also take things up a notch by wearing the right scent. Women like woody or musky scents because they seem to boost a guy’s masculinity. Remember not to use too much though since it will only ruin the whole thing.

Keep clear of bad breath.

Having bad breath during a date is one sure way of destroying your chances of convincing a woman to go out with you again. It’s one of the things that you can’t hide ever. It doesn’t matter if you look or smell amazing during your date. As long as you have bad breath, you’re definitely going to blow your chances quicker than you think.

Here are a few tips that will help you score a second date.

Here are a few tips that will help you score a second date.

If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably experienced going on a first date with a woman you like and pretty much thought that you’ve got it all in the bag. But when you ask her to go out with you again, you unfortunately find out that she’s not too keen on having another date with you.

Now while there is no magic formula that will guarantee a woman will go on a second date with you, there are simple ways that can easily boost your chances of convincing her to do so. So if you’re looking to score that somewhat elusive date number two, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Stash away your phone.

Nothing ruins an otherwise amazing date than giving your mobile phone or some other device more attention than the woman you’re with. You will only give her the notion that you’re impatient and would like to leave as soon as you can or perhaps someone who sees her that she’s not really worth your time. Either way a woman won’t be too happy to go out on a date with you again if you choose to stick your nose at your phone most of the time.

Ask open-ended questions.

A lot of guys make the mistake of asking questions that can be easily answered by a simple yes or no during a first date. Besides making the woman you’re with feel extremely bored, she can also think that you don’t consider her as someone interesting to have a conversation with. Instead of asking her if she likes to cook, find out what her favorite recipes are. That easily gives you an idea how to maneuver your date to your advantage as well.

Tell her jokes.

You may already know by now that getting humor in the picture is one effective strategy to use if you’d like to make a very nice impression on your date. Apart from making it easier for her to build a connection with you, she will think that you’re a nice guy and asking her out again won’t be a problem. Moreover, remember to stay clear from off-color jokes and other bits of crude humor that you normally share with other guys to avoid making her think that you’re getting fresh with her. You can always do that later when you two are much closer.

Show her you’re a gentleman.

Chivalry isn’t dead and showing your date that you’re one smooth chap is guaranteed to make her feel more eager to go on a second date with you. Don’t hesitate to pull her a chair, take off your coat when she feels chilly and basically making her feel that you’re her knight in shining armor. By the way, having good posture is also a mark of a true gentleman.