I am really disappointed at what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying about these days when it comes to giving a woman an amazing time between the sheets.
Besides suggesting that guys talk and act in a certain “alpha” way to supposedly give their partners the notion that they are rolling it with the best, they also recommend the use of artificial stuff that claim to take women’s pleasure levels off the charts.
During my extensive research into the female sexuality though, I’ve discovered a few key things that will surely help you give her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.
Make sure you read on to find out what these are…
Start her up with mental stimulation.
Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, foreplay begins outside the bedroom.
Now while this may sound rather surprising, but you can already start up her sexual arousal by sending her naughty messages on her email or mobile phone.
Apart from describing the things that you’ll do to your lover, you can also share your kinky sexual fantasies with her while you’re at it.
(Making sure that your bedroom is clean and organized is also a priority.)
Build up her tension.
If you’re anything like most guys, you probably want to start up the action in the bedroom as soon as you get the chance.
But the thing is that unlike men that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to do the same.
And your partner will end up not enjoying the whole thing if she feels rushed in any way at all.
The same thing goes when you’re already sexually penetrating her. Slow and easy is the way to go.
Ask her what she wants.
Nobody is more familiar with what your lover wants between the sheets than she is, right?
So make it a point to ask her how you’d like the action to go and let her call the shots. You simply have to ask her which erogenous zones to focus on and the way she wants them to be pleasured.
This doesn’t mean that you should always hang back and let her direct the show, but it’s nice to start things up, take note of the stuff she wants and keep the action going.
Try these tips on your next session and you will notice that things are going to be different.