If you’re anything like most men, chances are you can get ready for sex at the drop of a hat. However, women don’t get sexually aroused that way. They need to be eased into it or else things won’t get steamy in bed no matter how hard you try.
There’s no need to worry just yet if she’s not that receptive to your moves as usual these days. So if you’re looking to really get your lover going between the sheets, here are a few simple tricks that can easily make her want to get in action with you in the bedroom:
Spruce up your bedroom.
Now while this may sound surprising, not giving your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it truly deserves can prevent your partner from getting sexually aroused. As it turns out, women can find it tricky to fully relax if they think the place they’re in is quite messy.
Sure you may be wondering right now what relaxation has to do with sexual arousal, but her brain won’t be able to produce and release the right mood-altering hormones if she’s feeling distracted, anxious or tense.
This just means that if she thinks your bedroom needs a meticulous organizing or vacuuming, chances are she won’t be able to get ready for sexual action anytime soon. Make it a point to keep your bedroom spic and span and you’re definitely good to go.
Send her naughty messages.
Believe it or not, sending your lover a kinky text message or a saucy email can help boost your chances of making her sexually aroused. I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that women usually get ready for sex mentally and not visually like guys do.
It’s not that tricky to pull off, too. Simply send her messages that describe the things you’ll do to her, like the oral sex techniques you will use or perhaps the erogenous zones you will concentrate on, when you two get alone together.
Keep in mind to make them as graphic and vivid as you can to really get the job done. Don’t be afraid to really get your freak on when making them as well.
Give her chocolates.
Remarkably, chocolates contain compounds that help a woman’s brain churn out oxytocin and similar positive hormones that help her get in the mood for love easier and faster. If you want to heat her up for sex, make it a point to integrate chocolate into the meal you’re having. Munching on it for dessert is a smart option as well.