how to make her want sex

Finding it tricky to get her ready for lovemaking these days? Check this out.

Finding it tricky to get her ready for lovemaking these days? Check this out.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you can get ready for sex at the drop of a hat. However, women don’t get sexually aroused that way. They need to be eased into it or else things won’t get steamy in bed no matter how hard you try.

There’s no need to worry just yet if she’s not that receptive to your moves as usual these days. So if you’re looking to really get your lover going between the sheets, here are a few simple tricks that can easily make her want to get in action with you in the bedroom:

Spruce up your bedroom.

Now while this may sound surprising, not giving your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it truly deserves can prevent your partner from getting sexually aroused. As it turns out, women can find it tricky to fully relax if they think the place they’re in is quite messy.

Sure you may be wondering right now what relaxation has to do with sexual arousal, but her brain won’t be able to produce and release the right mood-altering hormones if she’s feeling distracted, anxious or tense.

This just means that if she thinks your bedroom needs a meticulous organizing or vacuuming, chances are she won’t be able to get ready for sexual action anytime soon. Make it a point to keep your bedroom spic and span and you’re definitely good to go.

Send her naughty messages.

Believe it or not, sending your lover a kinky text message or a saucy email can help boost your chances of making her sexually aroused. I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that women usually get ready for sex mentally and not visually like guys do.

It’s not that tricky to pull off, too. Simply send her messages that describe the things you’ll do to her, like the oral sex techniques you will use or perhaps the erogenous zones you will concentrate on, when you two get alone together.

Keep in mind to make them as graphic and vivid as you can to really get the job done. Don’t be afraid to really get your freak on when making them as well.

Give her chocolates.

Remarkably, chocolates contain compounds that help a woman’s brain churn out oxytocin and similar positive hormones that help her get in the mood for love easier and faster. If you want to heat her up for sex, make it a point to integrate chocolate into the meal you’re having. Munching on it for dessert is a smart option as well.

Boost your chances of getting your lover in bed with these simple tips...

Boost your chances of getting your lover in bed with these simple tips…

If you’re anything like most men, you probably like to get in action between the sheets as much as you want. However, you seem to have a problem firing up your lover in the bedroom these days…

So if you’re still having a tough time getting things hot in the bedroom with your partner, here are a few simple tips that will surely boost your chances of getting the job done without a fuss:

Prep up your bedroom.

One of the most important factors of getting a woman look forward to lovemaking is relaxation. The more relaxed she is, the easier it is to become sexually aroused when you start making things steamy in bed.

What’s really interesting is a messy bedroom can easily irk your lover and prevent her from getting as relaxed as possible to make her sexually aroused no matter how hard you try. It really doesn’t matter if you’re putting your A-game on the foreplay already.

This simply means that if she thinks your bedroom is icky, chances are she won’t be ready for sex.

Give yourself a makeover.

Now that we’ve got that covered, the next step is to spruce yourself up for your lover. Making it a point to look and smell good is a priority if you want to convince her to get down and dirty with you in the bedroom.

Have regular showers in your daily checklist. Make sure you get rid of excess facial hair that can feel annoying and uncomfortable to your partner. Use deodorant regularly to do away with the funky armpit odor. Spritz on perfume to take things up a notch as well.

In short, make it a habit to look and smell awesome and you’ll find it easier to convince your lover to get frisky with you in bed. You also boost the number of positive hormones in your body while at it, making you more confident and charming in the process.

Send her naughty and sexy messages.

Making a woman sexually aroused is mostly mental. This is why stimulating your lover’s mind is key when it comes to making her want to jump in bed with you. Unless you pull it off, your chances of making her eager for sex are quite slim.

Sending her a naughty text message or an email describing the things you’ll do when you’re alone together is sure to jump start her imagination and make it easier for you to get her going in bed.

(And be sure to keep clear from too much salt in your diet to prevent erectile dysfunction.)

Do you find your lover not that excited for sex these days?

Do you find your lover not that excited for sex these days?

So your lover is not that excited like she used to when you try making things steamier than usual in the bedroom…

If you’re noticing that your partner isn’t too eager to get between the sheets with you nowadays, there is no need to worry just yet. You may simply be overlooking the following mistakes that tend to ruin her sexual mood…

Not paying close attention to your hygiene.

Sure this may sound a bit simplistic, but not keeping an eye on your hygiene can lead to problems convincing your partner to get down and dirty with you in the bedroom. This is because how you look and smell can have a very huge impact in building up her sexual arousal.

See, a woman’s body needs a hormonal reaction to get ready for lovemaking. Unless this happens, she won’t experience the changes in her system to prepare her for action in bed like becoming sufficiently lubricated down there and boosting the sensitivity of her erogenous zones.

Pulling this off isn’t that tricky really. You just have to take regular showers, put on deodorant, brush and floss your teeth as well as having a spritz or two of perfume and you’re sure good to go. Make sure you get rid of excessive facial hairs since they can reduce oral sex pleasure while at it.

Smoking and drinking a lot.

Now while it is alright to enjoy your favorite drink from time to time moderately, overdoing the whole thing can lead to problems the next time you’d like to do the horizontal mambo with your lover.

This because apart from smelling rather unpleasant when you’ve consumed one too many portions of your drink, being intoxicated frequently also leads to a condition called vasoconstriction, in which the blood vessels tighten up and prevent you from achieving a stable erection.

And as for smoking, it doesn’t have any beneficial effects to the body and will only make you smell like an ashtray, so make sure you quit the habit as soon as you can.

Having a messy bedroom.

During my extensive research into the female psychology, nothing ruins a woman’s sexual mood like a dirty and cluttered bedroom.

Apart from giving your lover the notion that you are irresponsible, you will also make her feel that you’re not paying close attention to your hygiene…which gets us back to the very first item on this list.