how to make her go down on you

She'll be more eager to go down on you with these pointers.

She’ll be more eager to go down on you with these pointers.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are getting some oral attention from your lover is no doubt one of the things that you look forward to each time the action gets hot in the bedroom.

Besides being very pleasurable, it also makes you feel quite a man. But the thing is your partner seems to be not as eager to blow you like she used to these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve picked up a few pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may just help bring back her eagerness to give you a blowjob.

Let me explain what I mean…

Be as inviting as can be.

How you look and smell down there can make or break your chances of getting a BJ from her. This is because women are very particular with grooming. If she thinks that your grooming south of the border isn’t up to her liking, she won’t be heading that way to pleasure you anytime soon.

Give her awesome oral sex each time.

Oral sex is a two-way street. It’s either you pull out all the stops when you’re giving it or perhaps get a bad BJ when you’re on the receiving end. There’s even a possibility that her eagerness to go down on you will plummet in the process. Knock her socks off with amazing oral sex each time and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Vocal is the way to go.

Make it a point to really be vocal when you feel the pleasurable sensations during oral sex – and she’s the one giving it. See, apart from giving her the notion that you really like being blown, she will also think that she’s on the right track to giving you a BJ that you’ve always wanted. You can easily guide her while she’s at it, though.

Don’t boss her when you’re hankering for a BJ.

Sure asking her to go down on you is one thing, being bossy about the whole will only lead to disaster. This is because you’ll just end up making her body produce a lot of stress hormones that will make her feel anxious, impatient and awkward. And you’ve already got  a preview of how your oral sex session will turn out. Always make it a point to be gentle with her when you ask her to go down and you’ll be rewarded.

Boost your chances of getting head from her when you read this.

Boost your chances of getting head from her when you read this.

Chances are you’ve got “getting a blowjob” from your lover when it comes to the things that you look forward to when the two of you are already at it in the bedroom.

Although you have already convinced your partner to go down on you a lot of times already, you’re simply noticing that she’s not giving you head as much as she used to these days.

There’s no need to get upset yet, though. I discovered a few mistakes during my extensive research into the female sexuality that can prevent a woman from going down on you during lovemaking.

Why don’t you follow along to find out what these are to boost your chances of making her say yes to an oral sex session the next time you’re at it in bed?

You’re not keeping a close eye on your grooming.

How you look and smell is a key factor that women tend to be very particular with. If your lover thinks your grooming down there isn’t up to par, her body is inclined to churn out stress hormones that make her feel anxious.

And not just anxious, too. She’s also going to feel awkward and impatient in the process. I’m pretty sure you already have an idea how you’re oral sex session is going to turn out.

You don’t ask her nicely.

Although women like a guy who shows initiative, giving her the notion that you’re rather bossy in bed can be a big turn off. Make it a point to always ask her as nicely as you can when you’re in the mood for some oral action.

Sure the bossy shtick always works in porn movies, but trying it in real life will just lead to disaster before you know it.

You don’t give her an awesome oral sex session yourself.

Oral sex is basically a give and take situation.

If your lover thinks that she’s the only one exerting an effort when it comes to pleasuring you down under, she won’t be that excited to give you a blowjob session herself.

Always remember to knock her socks off each and every time you go down on her and you’ll be on the right track.

You think of oral sex as a burden.

See, your body tends to produce negative hormones that can affect your sexual mood when you think of giving her oral sex as a burden.

Besides making you feel uncomfortable at doing the whole thing, it can also lead to erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.

Are you still having trouble convincing her to give you a BJ?

Are you still having trouble convincing her to give you a BJ?

Ah, blowjobs. I’m pretty sure that they’re definitely in your checklist when things get extra steamy between the sheets.

Besides making you experience a lot of pleasurable sensations, getting head from your lover is no doubt one of your biggest bedroom fantasies.

However, the problem is you’re still not convincing her to go down on you until now. This doesn’t mean that you won’t be getting a bout of oral sex from your partner, though.

Chances are the following reasons are keeping her from exploring south of your border during lovemaking…

You suddenly ask her for a BJ in the middle of sex.

A lot of guys mistakenly believe that asking for a blowjob from a woman simply involves pausing in the middle of lovemaking and gently nudging her head in the direction of your penis.

Now while this move may work in porn movies, it’s rather tricky to pull the whole thing off in real life. See, this just makes her feel rushed and awkward.

Make it a point to discuss it way before the action to prep her up properly.

You don’t go down on her yourself.

Oral sex is basically a two-way street.

If you don’t make it a point to knock her socks off with an amazing round of cunnilingus when the two of you get busy in bed yourself, she won’t realize that the experience is both exciting and pleasurable.

So if you’d like your partner to give you oral action, take the lead and give her an experience she won’t forget anytime soon.

You don’t keep a close eye on your hygiene.

Now here’s the thing…

If you’re looking to convince your partner to take things orally down there, you’ve got to look and smell really nice. Keep in mind to be very conscious of your hygiene (especially in your nether region) and your chances of getting a BJ are sure to become higher.

You don’t keep your bedroom clean.

Like I’ve emphasized in an earlier post, your bedroom’s cleanliness can easily make or break her sexual arousal, which plays a key role in terms of convincing her to go down on you.

You don’t fire her up properly.

A woman’s sexual arousal directly affects the things she will be eager to take part in when things get hot in bed. If she’s not that fired up for action, she won’t be that enthusiastic to give the south of your border the TLC it deserves.

Still not getting a BJ from her? Here are the reasons...

Still not getting a BJ from her? Here are the reasons…

I’m betting that one of the items that you’ve got in your sexual checklist is getting a blowjob from your lover when things get extra steamy between the sheets.

And with the loads and loads of pleasurable sensations that you can experience while at it, what guy in his right mind wouldn’t want one, too?

However, you still can’t convince your partner to go down on you no matter how hard you try.

I know this can be a bit frustrating, but it doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to win her over when it comes to exploring south of your border.

Chances are the following reasons prevent her from really getting in action downtown…

You don’t ask her nicely.

Asking her nicely to give you a blowjob is perhaps the first thing that you should do if you’re looking for some oral action from your lover.

Now while being a take charge guy in the bedroom is a turn on among women, simply being too bossy when you want your partner to go down on you will just ruin her sexual mood altogether.

And don’t feel bad if she says no to you when you ask her nicely. There’s always a next time.

You are whiny.

Don’t spend the next few minutes asking your partner over and over if she can give you a blowjob. Believe me, you won’t convince her to do so no matter how many times you ask her again.

You don’t keep a close eye on your hygiene down there.

If you’re looking to convince your lover to give you a BJ, making it a point to keep your hygiene down there as impeccable as you can is a must.

Keep in mind to trim excess pubic hair and give your genitals a good washing in a regular basis. She won’t be too keen to go down on you if your penis, scrotum and the areas around them look and smell funky.

You don’t give her an amazing oral sex session yourself.

It won’t be that challenging to convince your partner to go down on you if you make it a habit to knock her socks off when you give her oral sex yourself.

She will be more eager and excited to take a shot at it herself when you make each oral sex session you give her as awesome and mind-blowing as can be.