If you’re anything like most guys, chances are getting some oral attention from your lover is no doubt one of the things that you look forward to each time the action gets hot in the bedroom.
Besides being very pleasurable, it also makes you feel quite a man. But the thing is your partner seems to be not as eager to blow you like she used to these days.
There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve picked up a few pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may just help bring back her eagerness to give you a blowjob.
Let me explain what I mean…
Be as inviting as can be.
How you look and smell down there can make or break your chances of getting a BJ from her. This is because women are very particular with grooming. If she thinks that your grooming south of the border isn’t up to her liking, she won’t be heading that way to pleasure you anytime soon.
Give her awesome oral sex each time.
Oral sex is a two-way street. It’s either you pull out all the stops when you’re giving it or perhaps get a bad BJ when you’re on the receiving end. There’s even a possibility that her eagerness to go down on you will plummet in the process. Knock her socks off with amazing oral sex each time and you’ll be surprised with the results.
Vocal is the way to go.
Make it a point to really be vocal when you feel the pleasurable sensations during oral sex – and she’s the one giving it. See, apart from giving her the notion that you really like being blown, she will also think that she’s on the right track to giving you a BJ that you’ve always wanted. You can easily guide her while she’s at it, though.
Don’t boss her when you’re hankering for a BJ.
Sure asking her to go down on you is one thing, being bossy about the whole will only lead to disaster. This is because you’ll just end up making her body produce a lot of stress hormones that will make her feel anxious, impatient and awkward. And you’ve already got a preview of how your oral sex session will turn out. Always make it a point to be gentle with her when you ask her to go down and you’ll be rewarded.