If you’re anything like most men, chances are getting a blowjob from your lover is one of the biggest highlights that you’re looking forward to during your sex session.
But the thing is you’re simply noticing that she’s not that eager to give you oral action anymore when things are getting hot between the sheets these days.
Although not getting your dose of vitamin BJ during lovemaking can be rather disappointing, this doesn’t mean that she’s already closing her doors when it comes to oral sex.
Chances are you’re just overlooking the following reasons that are preventing her from going down on you…
Reason #1: You’re neglecting your hygiene.
I’ll give you a moment to assess your overall hygiene right now.
If you think that you’re smelling a bit funky or looking quite unkempt, there is a big possibility that things are not that pretty and inviting down there as well.
Put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a sec. If things aren’t as fresh and nice south of your border, would you still give oral sex a go? Well, there’s your answer.
Make it a priority to always keep your hygiene in check so she won’t be easily turned off with the look and smell of your intimate areas.
Reason #2: You’re not giving her oral sex.
Oral sex is basically a two-way street. Your lover will think that she’s simply in the losing end if she is the only one who’s doing the work in terms of exploring south of the border.
Keep in mind to always include oral sex in your checklist of foreplay priorities to encourage her to give the whole thing a go sooner or later during your lovemaking session.
This means giving her a bout of oral action that will really knock her socks off, too, and not an experience that sends out the message that you’re only doing it because you’re obligated to.
Reason #3: You get too bossy when asking her to do it.
Now while being firm and showing initiative when things get extra steamy in the bedroom is an attribute that women find attractive in guys, overdoing the whole thing will only lead to the opposite.
Make it a point to ask your partner to go down on you in a firm manner, but with a gentle and patient touch while at it. Believe me, she will just feel that you’re bossing her around when you don’t do it this way.
And when this happens, it will be a BJ-less lovemaking session for you.