how to make her give more bjs

Does she give you this look when you ask her for a blowjob?

Does she give you this look when you ask her for a blowjob?

If you’re anything like most men, chances are getting a blowjob from your lover is one of the biggest highlights that you’re looking forward to during your sex session.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that she’s not that eager to give you oral action anymore when things are getting hot between the sheets these days.

Although not getting your dose of vitamin BJ during lovemaking can be rather disappointing, this doesn’t mean that she’s already closing her doors when it comes to oral sex.

Chances are you’re just overlooking the following reasons that are preventing her from going down on you…

Reason #1: You’re neglecting your hygiene.

I’ll give you a moment to assess your overall hygiene right now.

If you think that you’re smelling a bit funky or looking quite unkempt, there is a big possibility that things are not that pretty and inviting down there as well.

Put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a sec. If things aren’t as fresh and nice south of your border, would you still give oral sex a go? Well, there’s your answer.

Make it a priority to always keep your hygiene in check so she won’t be easily turned off with the look and smell of your intimate areas.

Reason #2: You’re not giving her oral sex.

Oral sex is basically a two-way street. Your lover will think that she’s simply in the losing end if she is the only one who’s doing the work in terms of exploring south of the border.

Keep in mind to always include oral sex in your checklist of foreplay priorities to encourage her to give the whole thing a go sooner or later during your lovemaking session.

This means giving her a bout of oral action that will really knock her socks off, too, and not an experience that sends out the message that you’re only doing it because you’re obligated to.

Reason #3: You get too bossy when asking her to do it.

Now while being firm and showing initiative when things get extra steamy in the bedroom is an attribute that women find attractive in guys, overdoing the whole thing will only lead to the opposite.

Make it a point to ask your partner to go down on you in a firm manner, but with a gentle and patient touch while at it. Believe me, she will just feel that you’re bossing her around when you don’t do it this way.

And when this happens, it will be a BJ-less lovemaking session for you.

Here are a few tips that can help you make her give more BJ's...

Here are a few tips that can help you make her give more BJ’s…

If you’re anything like most men, getting oral attention from your lover is definitely one of the things that’s in your sexual checklist.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner is not as eager to go down on you these days.

And it’s already getting you worried and anxious that she might not give you a blowjob anymore sooner or later. But the thing is this bedroom setback can be easily fixed.

You just have to keep the following pointers in mind to really boost interest in oral sex…

Always give her an amazing oral sex session.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, women are more likely to try a certain sexual position or technique if their experience with it is pleasurable.

To put it simply, if you knock your lover’s socks off every time you go down on her, chances are she will be more eager to give it a go herself when things get hot between the sheets.

(Here are some key oral sex tips that will surely help you do just that.)

Treat her gently.

Unlike what you see in porn movies, you should make it a point to treat your partner gently even during oral sex.

You should not work her head like it’s some type of a sex toy and never attempt to make her gag while you’re at it.

Like what I’ve emphasized earlier, if a woman doesn’t like the experience, she might not want to give it a try again in the future.

Be conscious with your grooming down there.

Your grooming shouldn’t just cover the things that she can see outside of the bedroom. It also includes the stuff that are only visible during lovemaking.

Always make it a habit to trim your pubic hair from time to time to keep it from becoming a nuisance when she goes down on you.

And remember to give your genitals a meticulous washing daily to get rid of unpleasant smells that might ruin her mood for oral action.

Inform her if you’re going to come.

Some women are okay with swallowing semen and others are not.

Keep in mind to give your lover a hint if you’re already reaching the point of no return during oral sex so she can prepare herself how to handle the situation.

She can either let you finish off inside her mouth or another part of her body.