how to make her cum

Simple tips to make her cum.

Simple tips to make her reach the Big O.

I’m pretty sure that making your lover come during a sex session is the most important thing in your bedroom checklist.

Apart from blowing her mind as you go along between the sheets, convincing her to have a go at it in bed again won’t be that tricky.

Sure you may already have a few tricks up your sleeve when it comes to making your partner cum in the bedroom, but I’ve come across some useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that you’ll surely find interesting.

So if you’re looking to really knock her socks off the next time the both of you are at it, make sure you follow along…

Make her as sexually aroused as possible.

I know this sounds rather simplistic, but making your lover as sexually aroused as she can bolsters the amount of the positive hormones and neurotransmitters that are going to be released during lovemaking.

And the more positive hormones and neurotransmitters are released during the same, the easier it will be for your partner to reach the Big O during lovemaking.

Just to make things even more interesting, her erogenous zones like the breasts, clitoris and “treasure trail” will also become more sensitive in the process.

Use different stimulation techniques.

Although you may already have an arsenal of stimulation techniques to keep your lover on her toes during lovemaking, doing the same things over and over will just make the whole experience dull and flat for her in the long run.

Make it a point to always update your sexual playbook each time you’re at it to make it easier for her to have an orgasm.

Go for other erogenous zones.

Sure a woman’s erogenous zones can produce pleasurable sensations when stimulated, but having a go at them every time you have a sex session will simply take away the excitement that they can set off.

Keep in mind to always go for a new erogenous zone or two when you’re looking to make her cum during sex. Besides keeping her on her toes, the pleasurable sensations she will feel are also going to be explosive.

Let her call the shots.

Although you may be the one initiating the action in the bedroom, make it a point to have her call the shots once in a while. Apart from making her more sexually adventurous, she’ll also lead you to the spots that she wants to be stimulated while at it.

So you'd like to make her cum again...

So you’d like to make her cum again…

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that making your lover achieve orgasm (or two) during sex is absolutely one of the top priorities in your lovemaking checklist.

Apart from giving your partner lots of pleasurable sensations so she won’t forget your sex session anytime soon, she will be more excited to have a go at it in the bedroom more often.

How’s that for two for two?

But there’s only one problem. You’re simply noticing that your lover is having a tricky time cumming during lovemaking these days.

And that’s even if you’re already bring your sexual A-game into play, too.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Chances are the following reasons are what’s keeping your partner from really achieving orgasm when the action’s hot between the sheets…

You’re neglecting your hygiene.

How you look and smell means a great deal to your lover. Besides being a crucial factor to turning her on, it also plays a key role when it comes to keeping her sexually aroused.

Make it a point to always keep your overall hygiene up to par. Apart from taking regular showers, it’s also a must to use deodorant as well as get rid of excess facial hair in the process.

Your bedroom is a mess.

The cleanliness and organization of your bedroom has a significant effect on the production and release of positive hormones to get your lover sexually aroused.

If she thinks your bedroom is a mess, it will be very difficult to make your partner feel really relaxed and comfortable, which is a requirement to get the sexual arousal process going.

Keep in mind to maintain the organization and cleanliness of your bedroom and you’re on the right track.

You go straight to penetration.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, a woman’s ability to achieve orgasm involves more than just sexually penetrating her vagina.

You’ve also got to really prep her up for action by heating her up through foreplay. And unless you keep this in mind, your lover is going to find it quite difficult to reach the Big O.

(Here’s a useful oral sex tip that you should check out, too.)

You do the same things again and again.

Sure you already have an idea of the things that turns your partner on and the stuff she likes when you’re getting busy between the sheets, but simply doing the same techniques over and over isn’t going to cut it.

Mix things up each and every time and you’ll be surprised with the results.

So she's not coming during sex these days...

So she’s not coming during sex these days…

So here’s the situation…

You and your lover are already at it between the sheets. And you’re already bringing your A-game into play to really knock her socks off and give her a mind-blowing orgasm or two in the process.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that even your best moves in bed aren’t hitting their mark anymore. It’s already getting you worried that you’ve lost your ability to really give your partner a sex session that she wants.

There’s no need to get anxious just yet though.

I’m pretty sure that you’re simply making a few mistakes that can make her sexual arousal significantly dip down and make it quite tough for her to achieve an orgasm. Let me explain what I mean…

You don’t clean your bedroom.

Sure this sounds rather out of place, but not giving your bedroom the cleaning and organizing that it deserves can easily prevent your lover from having an orgasm during sex.

See, during my extensive research into the female sexuality, I learned that two of the key factors that can disrupt the production and release of positive hormones in her body to get her completely sexually aroused is seeing and feeling that that the place she’s in is dirty and messy.

You’ll be surprised with the results when you make it a habit to keep your bedroom in apple pie order.

You don’t give her oral sex.

Going down on her is perhaps the best strategy you can go for when it comes to really making her come during sex. You’ll never fail with cunnilingus if you do it properly.

You assume that you know what she wants.

Now while you may already have an idea of the things that she likes when you two are at it between the sheets, it doesn’t mean that you can make her come during sex each and every time.

Keep in mind to ask your lover what she wants in the bedroom before you get into action. Besides asking her which erogenous zones to focus on, knowing the pace and rhythm she’s in the mood for also counts a lot.

You go too fast.

Come to think of it. Going fast and furious with your sexual penetration as soon as you get the chance will increase your chances of experiencing premature ejaculation. Isn’t this a bad move that you should always keep clear of?