So you’ve finally convinced your lover to try anal sex…
However, pulling it off in such a way that she will like it isn’t that easy as you think.
Sure you may already have an idea how to get it done, but it’s a good idea to keep these useful tips in mind so you can boost your chances of making her enjoy the whole experience even more.
Make sure you read on to find out more…
Warm her up completely.
Unlike the stuff that you see in porn movies, simply zeroing in on her anus and sexually penetrating it when you get the chance is one of the biggest mistakes that you will ever make when you do it in the backdoor.
See, anal sex can be something new for your lover and if things can go awry if she’s not feeling totally up for it. And you’ll need her to be completely sexually aroused for it, too.
Apart from the possibility that she will find the experience uncomfortable even to the point of being painful, there’s a chance that she won’t give anal sex another go in the future.
(Here’s a key pointer that will surely fire her up easily.)
Get your hands on a lot of lubrication.
Unlike the vagina that can produce natural lubrication during sexual arousal, the anus needs a bit of help in the same. You’ll need to have lube and lots of it if you’re looking to get an anal sex session going.
Neglecting this will just lead to disaster even before you really got things started. And the experience will just be terrible for your lover, too.
Besides going for the water-based variety, make it a point not to scrimp on the stuff when you apply it. Remember to re-apply every after a few minutes or perhaps when you feel things aren’t as smooth as they should.
Go slow and easy.
Sure the temptation may be great, but never get fast and furious on your partner when you engage in anal sex with her. It will only make the experience rather uncomfortable or perhaps even painful for her.
Keep things as slow and easy as you can. Only pick up the pace when she says so or else she might not feel the pleasure that you’re aiming for.
It’s also a good idea to let her call the shots while you two are at it.