If you’re feeling that you are currently in a sexual rut with your wife or girlfriend, then you’ve definitely come to the right place. Don’t take the waning of sex in your relationship lying down! It’s still not too late. I have some of the best tips you can use to beat the bedroom blues and bring back the roaring fires of passion in your sex life with ease.
Change up the schedule.
Most couples tend to believe that the perfect time for a sex session is only at night. Why not mix up your lovemaking program and have a bit of action in bed in the morning and afternoon? Sticking to a routine when it comes to sex only results to flat out monotony in the long run. Try surprising your partner with a morning quickie or an afternoon delight. The less she expects it the more like you’ll see sparks fly in no time at all.
Use high-tech teasing methods.
Getting your wife or girlfriend’s sexual side going is as easy as using today’s advancements in technology to your advantage. Need an idea or two to help you get started? Try whipping out your camera phone and sending her naughty pictures when she’s at work or perhaps shopping for groceries. Instead of giving her flowers and chocolates, up the ante a bit and email your partner a list of the kinky acts (like stimulating her breasts like a pro) you’ll do to her when you two get alone in the bedroom. Now let your imagination run wild.
Give your bedroom a makeover.
Making love over and over again in the same environment can be rather dull and boring – much like eating the same chicken sandwich for lunch daily and wondering why you seem to be tired of the stuff. Why not give your bedroom a tantalizing makeover and transform it into your very own sex sanctuary? With new blankets, sheets, lighting pieces and mirrors in the mix, you’re sure to feel like it’s a different room altogether.
Explore the magic of role-playing and sexual fantasies.
Playing roles with your wife or girlfriend is a great way to realize your kinky fantasies while improving your sexual relationship. How many times have you fancied dressing up as a doctor and giving your partner a full “physical exam?” Encourage her to do the same as well and you’ll never know how risqué her fantasies are. Maybe she’ll dress up as a professor and you’re the student…oh, you know the drill.