If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that getting head from your lover is one of the things that you’re looking forward to when things are sizzling up in the bedroom.
Besides giving you loads and loads of pleasurable sensations, getting some oral attention from your partner also makes you feel really manly.
However, you’re simply noticing that she’s not as eager to go down on you during lovemaking these days.
Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, it doesn’t mean that your days of getting BJ’s from your partner are almost over. Chances are you’re not just properly easing her into it in bed.
Make sure you follow along to learn a few things I’ve picked up during my extensive research into the female psychology that will help you convince her to get down and dirty south of your border…
Don’t be bossy.
Now while showing initiative during lovemaking is a strategy that a lot of women will find stimulating, overdoing the whole thing will just keep her from going down on you.
This is because you’ll just give her the notion that you’re already bossing her around. Make it a point to ask her firmly yet still in a gentle way.
You can also start things off by giving her an awesome oral sex session yourself.
Never beg for it.
Sure getting cute with your partner when the situation calls for it is alright, but actually begging for a BJ when you’re at it in bed is just going to lead to disaster.
See, apart from giving her the idea that you’re whiny, she’s also going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body, which can easily sap her sexual mood.
If she declines when you ask her to go down on you, don’t fret or show her that you’re upset. You can ask her again as you go along during your lovemaking session.
Make her feel that you really like it.
Always make your lover feel that she’s the greatest when she goes down on you.
Remember to appreciate the things she does and be rather vocal when she’s already getting busy down there.
Just keep in mind to tell her of the things that you don’t like while at it so she won’t do them again the next time around.
Keep your hygiene down there up to par.
Put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a bit. Would you be game enough if you don’t look and smell so good down there?
Well, there’s your answer.