how to get her sexually aroused

These are the reasons why she's finding it tricky to get sexually aroused.

These are the reasons why she’s finding it tricky to get sexually aroused.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you don’t find it tricky to get ready for a lovemaking session.

It only takes a mere peek at your lover’s sexy bits or perhaps a whiff of her perfume to turn you on. But the thing is it’s entirely a whole new different ballgame for your partner.

She needs to be eased into it the right way or else she’ll just end up not getting ideally sexually aroused or not even close to it at all.

And now you’re simply noticing that your lover is taking longer to get ready between the sheets these days. This doesn’t mean that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to getting her going for lovemaking, though.

Chances are you’re just making the following mistakes that keep her sexual arousal levels from really taking off…

You’re not keeping an eye on your hygiene.

Your smell and appearance are two of the most important factors that can make or break your chances of getting a woman sexually aroused.

If they’re not kept up to par as they should, there’s a big possibility that your lover won’t be bumping headboards with you anytime soon because she’s just going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body even when you’re already bringing your best moves into play.

And if you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that stress hormones only make women feel impatient and awkward.

Make it a point to always keep your hygiene in check to get on the right track.

You’re not keeping your bedroom in apple pie order.

Women are very particular with cleanliness and organization.

And if your bedroom isn’t kept as clean and organized as can be, your partner will have a problem getting ready for action in bed because she’ll just be preoccupied with the mess.

Keep in mind to give your bedroom the TLC it deserves and you’re sure to boost your chances of getting your lover going for a sex session.

You’re doing the same moves again and again.

Sure you may already have an idea of the moves that your partner likes when you’re already getting frisky in the bedroom, but doing it again and again will significantly reduce the pleasure and excitement levels that they can set off.

Make it a point to update your sexual checklist from time to time to prevent this from happening.

These commonly overlooked factors can break a woman's sexual arousal.

These commonly overlooked factors can break a woman’s sexual arousal.

A woman’s sexual arousal plays a very important role when it comes to giving her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

The more fired up for sex your partner is, the more pleasurable sensations she will experience when the action’s already hot between the sheets, which means that making her reach the Big O as you go along won’t be that tricky.

But the thing is a lot of guys seem to overlook a few crucial factors that can keep a woman from really getting sexually aroused. And we will tackle them in a bit when you follow along…

You rush her to get in the mood.

Unlike guys that can get ready for action in the bedroom at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to get in the mood for lovemaking. And you’re only setting yourself up for disaster if you rush your partner in any way.

Make it a point to go as smooth and easy as you can when you’re trying to fire her up for sex. Sure the temptation to go fast and furious is overwhelming, but the rewards are simply worth it when you do it slowly.

You do the same moves.

Here’s the thing. No matter how much a woman likes a foreplay technique, she won’t find it pleasurable as before if you do the same thing each time you get the opportunity. Make sure you use different techniques every time to really take her sexual arousal up a notch.

You don’t keep an eye on your bedroom’s cleanliness and organization.

Women are very particular with organization and cleanliness. Your chances of getting her sexually aroused are going to be very slim because her body will only have a surge of negative hormones.

Unlike their positive counterparts that promote sexual arousal, negative hormones will set off feelings of anxiety and impatience. Just imagine how that will disrupt the possibility that she will be excited for getting frisky between the sheets.

You go straight to the clitoris and nipples.

Sure they may be the two most sensitive erogenous zones in a woman’s body, but simply making a beeline to the clit and nipples will only lead to the opposite. Keep in mind to warm her up properly first before you get right to the main event.

Key erogenous zones that will help start her up include the back of the neck, the lower abdomen and the inner thighs.

Get her really going for sex when you consider these key factors...

Get her really going for sex when you consider these key factors…

Taking your lover’s sexual arousal levels up a notch is definitely your biggest priority when it comes to getting the action going between the sheets.

Apart from ensuring that she will experience lots of pleasurable sensation while the two of you are at it, her chances of reaching the Big O are also going to be higher in the process.

However, a lot of guys seem to overlook a few simple factors that can easily prevent a woman from really getting sexually aroused. There’s a big possibility that you’re doing them as well.

And you should make it a point to follow along if you think you’re going through this problem these days…

Your bedroom’s cleanliness and organization is a priority.

I know this sounds rather surprising right now, but your lover’s sexual arousal is connected to how clean and organized your bedroom is.

See, unlike guys that can get going for action between the sheets spontaneously, women need to feel relaxed and cozy first to prep up for lovemaking.

And you’re just going to end up promote an opposite response when she sees that your bedroom is a mess.

Besides keeping your bedroom in apple pie order, sprucing it up with a few sexy and romantic accents like lighting scented candles and putting on some music is also a smart idea to really get her freak on.

You need to stimulate her brain, too.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, it’s not just physical stimulation that counts when it comes to getting a woman sexually aroused.

You also need to stimulate her brain to make it easier for it to activate the endocrine glands to produce and release positive hormones, which are needed by the body to prepare for lovemaking.

Although this sounds a bit complicated, simply sending her kinky text messages or calling her up and describing the sexy stuff you’ll do to her in detail when you two are finally alone is also going to do the trick.

When was the last time you updated your bedroom playbook?

Now while you may already know her favorite foreplay techniques and the erogenous zones that she wants you to stimulate when things are getting hot in bed, simply doing them over and over during sex will sap away the pleasurable sensations that they can give sooner or later.

And this can keep her from really getting in a sexual mood in the bedroom.

Keep in mind to update your sex checklist from time to time to really knock her socks off when you two are already at it.

I'm sure you're going to be inspired to clean your bedroom more often after reading this...

I’m sure you’re going to clean your bedroom more often after reading this…

I’m pretty sure that you’d like to get your lover going for sex as quickly as you can.

However, unlike men that can get ready for action in the bedroom at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it slowly or else they’re going to find it tricky to do just that.

During my extensive research into the female psychology though, I discovered a few simple things that can help boost her sexual arousal when you’re trying to heat her up between the sheets.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Cleaning your bedroom is a sexual boost for women.

That statement sounds rather unbelievable, right? Well, as it turns out, making it a point to keep your bedroom spic and span is one effective way that your lover can get ready for sex quickly.

This is because women need to be totally relaxed before they can get really sexually aroused. Unless they feel that way, their brains won’t stimulate the endocrine glands to release the right hormones that get them in the mood for lovemaking.

Your partner’s brain will still release mood-altering hormones though when you try to heat her up for sex when she’s not that relaxed, but they will be mixed with their stress counterparts in the process.

And she won’t be completely sexually aroused as a result.

Compliments can get her wet down there.

Now while I don’t want to send the message that simply saying a good thing about your partner will immediately get her gushing, complimenting her is a form of mental stimulation that you can use to make her sexually aroused.

See, saying something good about her, like how round and firm her breasts are or perhaps how vivacious her hips and legs look, her brain releases small amounts of feel-good hormones that also play key roles in sexual arousal.

Just think what they can do when you’ve managed to release a lot of them…

One thing to keep in mind though: never overdo the compliments or you’ll sound phony, which will just lead to the opposite results.

Keep your facial hair trimmed.

I’m sure you’re asking what facial hair’s got to do with making a woman sexually aroused right now, but you’re sure to find this bit interesting…

Did you know that apart from making you look unkempt, too much facial hair can also ruin her pleasure when you give her oral sex? Just keep things trimmed and clean and you’ll be alright.