Convincing a woman to go out with you again is perhaps on top of your checklist when it comes to first dates. However, pulling it off isn’t a walk in the park and there are a few things you need to keep in mind to really get the job done.
So if you’re looking to improve your chances of taking a woman out the second time around, make sure you follow along…
Look and smell as nice as you can.
Let’s kick things off with the most important factor of all when it comes to scoring a second date: making it a point to look and smell nice. Unless you pay close attention to this, chances are your date won’t be that eager to go out with you again.
Apart from making sure that your outfit is alright, remember to take a meticulous shower, splash on some deodorant and get rid of any excess facial hair that can make you look unkempt to your date. Having a spritz or two of perfume also helps a lot as well.
Sure this may sound like a lot of work, but keeping a close eye on your smell and appearance does more than just showing a woman that you’re paying attention to your hygiene. You’re also boosting the number of mood-altering hormones produced and released in your body, which make you feel more relaxed and confident on your date.
Have a few interesting topics up your sleeve.
Building an emotional connection with your date is important to convince her to go out with you again. And the best way to establish this connection with a woman is engaging her in a meaningful conversation.
However, carefully picking out the topics you should talk about is a priority if you want to get her attention and keep it that way. Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, keeping things as trivial as possible is the way to go.
Ask her what her favorite book or movie is and you’ll be surprised how easy it is to sustain the conversation. Keep in mind to listen to her intently while you’re at it since you can also pick up a lot of useful things to dazzle your date even more.
Give her all your attention.
Now while checking your phone once or twice during your first date may not sound like something that can ruin the whole experience, but overdoing it can make a woman feel that you’re bored or worse, not interested in her at all.
Make it a point to put off posting status messages or tweets until after your date to give the woman you are out with all your focus, which boosts your brownie points while at it. Although sharing on your social media network that you’re out on a date is cool, ensuring that you’re on your way to a second one is much more awesome.