I think that fingering your lover during a sex session is one of the best strategies you can go for.
Apart from giving her a lot of pleasurable sensations when you do it properly, using your fingers to stimulate her vagina when the action’s hot in the bedroom also helps make you last for as long as you can in the process.
However, unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, fingering isn’t just about sticking your fingers in her vagina when you get the chance. There are actually some priorities you need to remember to make the experience awesome for her.
So if you’re looking to really wow her the next time you “take matters into your own hands,” here are some important things that you should keep in mind…
Get her really fired up in bed.
Getting your lover really sexually aroused is a priority when it comes to fingering because it can easily make or break your chances of giving her pleasure while you’re at it.
See, you need to get your partner suitably wet before you can pleasure her down there with your fingers or else she’s just going to feel uncomfortable and awkward.
There’s even a chance that she’ll lose her sexual mood when you skip the whole thing, too.
(Here’s a useful trick that you can use to get her fired up for lovemaking.)
Trimmed fingernails are a must.
Although the vagina is naturally elastic and able to withstand a lot of pumping, it is still vulnerable to being pricked by unkempt fingernails during fingering.
Keep in mind to give your fingernails the trimming that they deserve before even thinking about getting busy south of her border.
Don’t go straight to the clitoris.
Sure the clitoris is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body, stimulating it before it’s really ready to produce pleasurable sensations will just lead to disaster.
Take note that you’ve got to give the clitoris a bit of time to get ready or else she’ll just think that your efforts are uncomfortable and annoying.
And that’s even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play while at it.
Let her in on the action.
Asking your lover to guide you when you’re already getting busy with your fingers down there helps you really hit the spots she wants to be stimulated.
Apart from asking her if the pressure and speed you’re applying are alright, she can also give you directions to the areas that give her maximum pleasure.