how to establish a friendly connection with a woman

So you'd like to build a friendly connection on a date...

So you’d like to build a friendly connection on a date…

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure you think dates are stepping stones to establishing a romantic connection with a woman.

However, women see dates as more of social events where they can make friends. Imagine how awkward things will turn out if you immediately make the moves on her.

And that easily means blowing your chances of acing your date, right?

During my extensive research into the female psychology, I discovered a few key pointers that may just help you boost your chances of establishing a friendly connection with a woman on your date.

And if you play your cards right, you might even take your connection up a notch anytime soon. So given that you already took care of your grooming and switched your mobile phone to silent, let’s go over these pointers real quick…

Don’t arrive late.

Arriving late on a date is pretty much a mortal sin.

Besides giving a woman the notion that you’re taking the whole thing for granted, it also makes her feel that you’re really not that interested in her, so you can scratch off any potential romance in the long run while at it.

Make it a point to arrive at least 15 minutes ahead just to be extra safe.

Break the ice with trivial topics.

Never start a conversation with a serious tone.

This covers everything from politics to the technical stuff you learned at work. Keep clear from discussing about marriage and going steady as well. Believe me, it’s either going to bore your date or perhaps creep her out.

One simple trick to pull this off is asking a woman what her favorite book or movie is.

She won’t be that reserved with her words since the topic is so trivial. Keep in mind to listen intently to her while at it or she’ll lose interest with the conversation in no time.

Lay off the alcohol.

No matter what you do, never reach for your favorite brew on a date, especially if it’s the first time you’re taking a woman out.

Alcohol can make you say and do things awkward if you have one too much of it. Just to guarantee that things won’t go haywire anytime soon, save the thirst-quenching after the date.

However, if your date insists that you should have wine with the entrée you ordered, limit yourself to a glass tops and no more.