how to convince her to try anal sex

Here are a few tips to convince her to try anal sex easier...

Here are a few tips to convince her to try anal sex easier…

As a guy, there is a good chance that anal sex is one of the greatest fantasies you have between the sheets.

However, there’s also the possibility that your lover isn’t too keen on giving anal sex a try anytime soon because you’re simply not convincing her the right way.

So if you’re looking to, let’s say, successfully enter the backdoor the next time things get hot in the bedroom, here are the possible mistakes that you should keep clear of to get the job done easily…

You don’t make her see it as a pleasurable experience.

A lot of guys fail at convincing their partners to try anal sex because they don’t make it sound like it’s pleasurable for them, too. They just describe the experience as a whole and do not include the enjoyable sensations that their lovers can go through when they do it.

Make it a point to maximize the power of suggestion the next time you convince her to give anal sex a try. Besides explaining to her that it’s not as bad as she thinks, make sure you also tell her that more and more women are including anal sex as a regular in their bedroom action playlist these days because it’s awesome.

You don’t get her as relaxed as possible.

As I have emphasized in my previous posts, getting a woman as relaxed as can be is a must if you’d like her to become more adventurous in bed. Interestingly, giving your lover a relaxation overload also boosts your chances of actually convincing her to try anal sex.

Now while she might not warm up to the idea of getting her anus sexually penetrated immediately, make sure you reassure her that everything will be alright and give her time to decide if she’s really ready to do it. Forcing her to have anal sex will only end up in disaster sooner than you think.

You don’t start slow and easy.

What’s really important if you’re looking to make your partner see anal sex as something enjoyable is you have to do it right the first time…or else it will be your last time doing it.

Before you even think about starting the action, always keep in mind to have all the necessary stuff ready like plenty of lubrication to avoid experiencing setbacks while at it. When you’re totally sure that everything’s smooth and prepped up, try thrusting as gently as you can. Carry on if she’s not asking you to stop. Don’t forget to reapply lube from time to time to keep the whole experience as smooth as can be.

Convincing her to try anal sex is not as tough as you think. Here are the secrets you need to take note of.

Convincing her to try anal sex is not as tough as you think. Here are the secrets you need to take note of.

If you’re like most men, then you’ve definitely fantasized about getting some backdoor action from your wife or girlfriend more times than you’d care to mention. However, if you’re like most men, chances are you’re also having a really tough time convincing your partner to try anal sex.

Sure, successfully winning over your partner to become more adventurous in the bedroom can be quite a challenge but pulling it off isn’t an impossible feat either. Read on for my best 3 strategies on how you can finally get some anal sex.

Communicate with her.

Asking her nicely is perhaps the first thing you should do to convince your wife or girlfriend to let you in the backdoor. Just sneaking your penis into her anus the next time you’re going at it is not just downright rude and is definitely the best way to blow your chances of getting any anal action ever.

Keep in mind to learn the reasons why she isn’t as enthusiastic as you are when it comes to anal sex. Perhaps she’s already had a bad experience with it or she’s very afraid of the rather uncomfortable sensations involved. Don’t rush her into doing anal, too. If she says yes, good. If she says no, however, there’s always a next time.

Include her anus during oral sex.

Gauging her reaction if she might be into anal sex is not as complicated as you think. Make sure you stimulate the edges of her anus the next time you go down on your partner. If her moans get deeper and her hips gyrate more excitedly, then perhaps you’ve got a chance of getting lucky.

On the other hand, if she’s suddenly become silent, it’s time to stop. She might be anxious about the whole thing. Always remember that unless she’s ready to receive you anally, her sphincter wouldn’t budge and you’ll just waste a lot of time (sexy time, mind you) trying to get your penis in her anus. (Why not learn how to give the best oral sex to help you get started in a snap?)

Don’t bark orders.

Acting like a drill sergeant when you are trying to win her over to have anal sex with you is the biggest mistake you’ll ever make. Apart from only making her anticipate that she won’t be enjoying the experience, your wife or girlfriend will just think that you’ll be forcing her to do sexual things she doesn’t like in the process as well.

If there’s a time to become super patient with your partner, this is absolutely it. Some women see anal sex as taboo. While being firm and assertive with your suggestions is a plus, overdoing it can lead to disaster. Just keep it cool and who knows? You might just get lucky tonight.