I’m betting that anal sex is one of the things that you’d like to try in the bedroom.
Besides promising exciting sensations that you’ve never felt before, giving it a go during lovemaking also boosts your manliness.
But the situation is you’re still having a tough time convincing your partner to give anal sex the green light when you’re feeling frisky in bed.
I’ve learned a few factors during my extensive research into the female psychology that may be keeping your lover from giving backdoor action a try during sex.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
The being “taboo” part.
Let’s kick things off with perhaps the biggest reason why some women aren’t that eager to try anal sex: they think it’s rather unusual and taboo.
This basically gives them a negative mindset about the whole thing, which promotes the release of stress hormones in their bodies and sets off anxiety, impatience and discomfort.
Make it a point to explain anal sex to her outside of the bedroom before even thinking about putting the moves on her.
The possibility of hurting.
A lot of women find it tricky to give anal sex a shot because they think it can hurt them. A lot.
Now while it’s true that sexually penetrating your lover in the anus can be rather uncomfortable if done incorrectly, there are actually a lot of ways that you can do to prevent this from happening.
Apart from making it a point to really fire up her sexual arousal, using a lot of lube in the process should also be a priority to keep things smooth and easy.
Her pleasure levels.
Chances are your partner keeps clear from anal sex because she thinks that it’s just going to be pleasurable for you.
Keep in mind to remind her that there are actually sensitive nerve endings lining the anus that produce pleasurable sensations when stimulated.
You can also get her curiosity going by including the anus during foreplay. Besides stroking it gently, you can also do the techniques you use when pleasuring her vagina and clitoris.
Sure anal sex may have some elements of being dirty, but you can easily get rid of this negative mindset by explaining to her that she can easily clean her anus when she takes a shower or a bath.
You can also use a condom while doing it to prevent unwanted bits and pieces to stick to your penis during the action.