how to convince her to go down on you

So you'd like to get her to go down on you more often..

So you’d like to get her to go down on you more often…

Ah, blowjobs.

If you’re like most men, I’m pretty sure that you’d like experience some oral action from your lover when things are already getting steamy between the sheets.

But the thing is simply giving her the message to get in action down there by prodding her head in the direction of your genitals isn’t going to cut it.

Make sure you follow along to learn a few simple ways to encourage your partner to get busy south of your border more often…

Get her completely sexually aroused.

Unlike the stuff that you get to see in porn movies, a woman doesn’t automatically get down on her knees and suck you off when things get hot in bed.

It’s crucial that you get her really warmed up or else she won’t be that eager to give you some oral action.

Think of the whole thing as getting a car running. You can’t expect a vehicle to run without engaging it in gear first, right?

(Here’s a simple technique that you can use to do just that.)

Give her an amazing oral sex session yourself.

Convincing her to go down on you isn’t just about using your gift of gab to get the job done. You also need to give her a demonstration of your oral sex skills to seal the deal.

Make it a point to always give her a mind-blowing cunnilingus session when you’re at it in bed.

Believe me, it won’t be that tough to convince her to have the same treatment down there before you know it.

Don’t be bossy.

Now while showing initiative in the bedroom is an attribute women like, overdoing the whole thing will just lead to disaster.

You’ll only give your lover the notion that you are bossing her around when you get too rough on her when you ask her to explore south of your border.

Keep in mind to do it gently, but with a bit of ruggedness that makes her more excited while at it.

Make her feel you’re really enjoying it.

Once she goes down on you, make it a point to give a reaction that she can hear and feel.

Groan and moan in pleasure. Buckle your knees and legs. Give her the notion that you’re enjoying the experience.

This subconsciously gives her the idea that she’s doing it right and you love it, which makes her want to integrate oral sex in her bedroom checklist.

Make her want to give you a BJ with these tips.

Make her want to give you a BJ with these tips.

I’m betting that getting a blowjob from your lover when the action’s hot between the sheets is no doubt one of the things that you’re looking forward to during sex.

But here’s the situation…

You are still having a problem convincing your partner to go down on you even if you’re already practically begging her to give the whole thing a try in bed.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though, that you won’t get some oral action from your lover. Make sure you follow along to find out how you can boost your chances of getting a BJ from her…

Ask her nicely…out of the bedroom.

The biggest mistake that you can ever make when you want your partner to explore south of your border is asking her to do it when you’re already at it in bed.

Besides making her feel pressured, she will also have the idea that you’re forcing her to do it because you are asking her to give it a shot in such a short notice.

A better strategy would be suggesting it to your lover when you’re outside the bedroom. Integrate it in a casual conversation or perhaps suggest it to her through a joke.

Give her an amazing oral sex session.

It will be very tricky to convince your partner to give you a BJ if you don’t give her oral sex yourself. Or perhaps you go down on her, but she’s not enjoying it like she should.

Make it a point to give her an experience that she won’t forget anytime soon when you give her some oral action yourself. Stimulate her down there properly to make her reach the Big O again and again.

Unless you give her the notion that your oral sex sessions are truly enjoyable, your lover won’t be that excited to try it anytime soon.

But if you keep in mind to really knock her socks off when you do it, your chances of getting a blowjob will be much higher.

Don’t be bossy about it.

Sure showing your partner that you have the initiative to give her an amazing lovemaking session is one thing, but overdoing the whole thing will already make her feel that you’re bossy.

And when she feels that way, her body will have a surge of stress hormones that will just make her feel anxious, impatient and rather uncomfortable.

That simply means no BJ for you, my friend.