how to be more confident

Looking to boost your confidence? Check this out!

Looking to boost your confidence? Check this out!

Your level of self-confidence plays a very important role in your life. Besides influencing how you think and act daily, it also affects every decision you make.

And if you’re anything like most men, chances are you tend to experience problems keeping your confidence up to par from time to time, especially during tough situations.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, though, improving your confidence isn’t as tough as you think.

Here are some key tips you should keep in mind if you’re looking to take your confidence up a notch…

Accept that it’s going to take time.

Let me kick things off by saying that improving your confidence isn’t something that can be achieved overnight. Besides requiring a lot of commitment on your end, it also takes time to pull off.

There is no way that you can cut corners or rush the whole thing. If you think that you don’t have the time or determination yet, then it’s best to put it off until you’re really ready.

Doing it half-cocked won’t cut it. Ever.

Focus on your weaknesses.

At its simplest, it’s your weaknesses that are holding you back from really improving your confidence.

Make it a point to list down all your attributes that you think need improvement and how you can make them better.

Sure this sounds rather tedious, but this helps you know yourself in a deeper level and allow you to creatively fix the issues that need to be taken care of.

List down your strengths, too.

If you’ve got weaknesses, then you’ve certainly got strengths as well.

Just like what we previously discussed, make sure you note down the things that you’re good at. Some men tend to overlook the fact that they’re good at things, too.

It could be a talent or perhaps some unique attribute that you have and think of ways how you can improve them as well.

Interestingly, the mere thought of listing down your strengths helps promote the release of positive hormones that make you feel good.

Keep it going.

When you start your journey to improve your confidence, make it a point to follow it through each day.

It isn’t something that you should stop altogether because you find the experience challenging.

Always remember that although improving your confidence takes a bit of time, you’re sure to reap the rewards once you pull it off.

Looking to boost your confidence levels? Read this.

Looking to boost your confidence levels? Read this.

Confidence is one of the key things that women look for guys when they’re going on a date.

If the woman you’re out with thinks that you don’t have enough of it, chances are your date with her won’t turn out like you’ve expected.

She will just think you’re not a man that she should be on a date with.

Similarly, having too much confidence isn’t going to cut it either because you will already give her the notion that you’re plain arrogant.

With that said, let’s go over some simple ways to jumpstart your confidence boost…

Be committed to it.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “pickup artists” are saying, being suitably confident isn’t something that you can achieve in a snap.

You’ve got work on it in a committed and determined manner to really pull the whole thing off in the long run.

See, when it comes to being confident, the phrase “practice makes perfect” still applies.

Improve your overall hygiene and grooming.

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that looking and smelling great should definitely be on your list of dating priorities if you’re looking to wow a woman on a date.

Interestingly, having the knowledge that you look and smell good causes a surge of positive hormones in the body that will not just improve your mood, but will also make you move, talk and act in a more relaxed manner.

Don’t forget to brush and floss regularly, use deodorant, shower in a daily basis as well as trim your nails and you’ll be on the right track in no time.

Flaunt the things that you’re good at.

Although women think that intelligence is a positive attribute, portraying that you’re a know-it-all is already a turn off.

Make it a point to only talk about things that you really know about when socializing with a woman or else your ego – and confidence – will be shattered with a rejection out from nowhere unexpectedly.

Believe in yourself.

Aiming to be more confident as a guy without actually believing in yourself is simply going to be hopeless no matter how hard you try. It takes a lot of faith in yourself to really get the job done.

Now while the road to being more self-confident can look and feel harrowing, you’ll just be surprised with the results when you push on.