foreplay tips

Let her be the one leading you to bed with these foreplay tips.

Let her be the one leading you to bed with these foreplay tips.

Women don’t get hot and ready for some bedroom action at a drop of a hat like men do. With a few superb foreplay tips, however, you’re guaranteed to get the job licked (pun intended) in no time at all. Make sure you give the rest of this article a careful read through to learn a few foreplay pointers that will definitely get your wife or girlfriend going.

Let her anticipate.

Believe it or not, anticipation is perhaps one of the best tools you can use to take her arousal levels off the charts. Don’t immediately zero in on her erogenous zones the moment things get steamy in the bedroom. Stall for time getting your wife’s or girlfriend’s top off or unbuttoning her jeans. The excitement and anticipation in the process will get her senses all fired up and leave her begging you for more.

Talk dirty to her.

While most men think that getting physical is the only way to get their partners in the mood for sex, whispering kinky things in her ear can also give you the same results. Tell her in graphic detail the things you’ll do to her during your lovemaking session as well as the stuff you know that turns her on and chances are she’ll be up for a round of mind-blowing sex in no time.

Don’t rush things.

Unless your wife or girlfriend is into rough sex, taking things slow and easy is the way to go when doing foreplay with your partner. Spend a few minutes concentrating on a specific erogenous zone like her neck, back of the ears or breasts. You will know you’re doing a good job heating your partner up when her breathing gets a bit faster and she’s moaning like crazy. Use your lips, fingers and tongue at the same time to give her a sexual sensation overload that she will never forget.

Give her just the tip.

Remember the anticipation pointer I told you about earlier? You can make your wife or girlfriend go wild with sexual tension if you just insert the tip of your penis in her vagina when she expects the full treatment. Don’t forget to rub your member over her clitoris and outer labia and get ready to see the full wild sexual side of your partner in action. (Now’s your cue to brush up on your Kegel exercises to last longer in bed and give her the sexual satisfaction she’s always wanted.)

 

Foreplay Doesn't Have To Just Happen In The Bedroom

Not a fan of foreplay? Here’s a great method to use so you don’t have to spend the first 30 minutes under the sheets waiting for sex…

Now if you’re a guy who doesn’t really enjoy foreplay that much (or at least loves sex 1000x more than foreplay) then that’s OK.

But one fact you will have to face is that turning on a woman doesn’t happen instantly.

Men can be aroused in a matter of seconds, but for women this just isn’t the case.

So the trick here is to be wise about HOW and WHEN you arouse your women.

You see, the “old-school” thinking behind foreplay is that when you’re in bed with a woman you need to start turning her on, therefore you engage in foreplay.

And if you subscribe to this way of thinking then unfortunately foreplay in bed is pretty much unavoidable, because like I said earlier women need at least some time to be turned on.

Now if as soon as you get into bed you want to start having sex then you’re going to need a different approach.

And this is what I recommend…

Perform foreplay THROUGHOUT THE DAY.

Whenever you interact with your woman during the day, whether it be via text, phone, e-mail or in person – start turning her on.

Be sexual.

And just like you would in foreplay slowly raise the intensity and intimacy of the stimulation.

So start by talking about stroking her hair and kissing her neck first, and then later move on to talking about her more intimate areas and what you’re going to do to them.

If you sprinkle this kind of interaction throughout the day with your woman, then by the time it comes to sex she will so horny you won’t believe it.

Remember a woman’s mind is INCREDIBLY active and she’ll be fantasising all day about you if you stimulate her well with your conversation.

And what you’ll find is that all this conversation IS YOUR FOREPLAY.

The purpose of foreplay is to turn a woman on and to prepare her for sex… And this is exactly what you’re doing by communicating with her sexually and teasing her all day long.

So when you finally meet in bed she’ll be so horny that you won’t need the “traditional” foreplay before having sex… She’ll be ready for it.

Seriously… The power of this approach when done right is AMAZING.

And, if you so wish, eliminates the need for foreplay in the bedroom.

(Of course, if you do decide to add some “traditional” foreplay then the results will be even more powerful)

So now you know how to skip foreplay you better be sure you can last long in bed!  Check out this article on Premature Ejaculation to make sure you avoid it from happening.

Being good at foreplay can mean the difference between getting your woman to orgasm within minutes of sex and having her NEVER orgasm.  Here’s how to get your woman super-horny before you start having sex…

Firstly you’ve got to realize how women work differently.  As this article called Sex Tips: Know More About Foreplay puts it, women and men are totally different when it comes to arousal.

Men are like light bulbs and women are like irons.  We can be turned on and off instantly, but women need to be turned on gradually over time.

So how can you use this to your advantage?

Well firstly, take a moment to get into her shoes.  Imagine how you would view sex if it wasn’t a yes or no decision, but rather something that happened over time.

The first thing you’d realize is that you’d have to be in the mood to want to go ahead with it…

Sound familiar?

Because if a woman is not in the mood for sex… She is not in the mood for sex, and no amount of verbal persuasion can change that.

As men we’ve all been there, wanting sex, but our woman doesn’t want it, because she doesn’t feel like it.

It can be frustrating to us because it’s difficult to understand how she feels because we can get turned on in an instant.

But there’s also a flip side to this…

If we understand what women are like we can learn from it.

And the first thing to realize is that since you’ve got to turn her on over time… Why not start earlier?

Why not start teasing and flirting with her during the day?

Say little sexual comments to her throughout the day.

Slowly build up her anticipation for sex.

This way when it finally comes to physical foreplay she’ll already be incredibly excited and you’ll be much less likely to run into the roadblock of “I’m not in the mood”.

You’ll be amazed at the difference this little trick has on your sex life.

And what’s even better is that if she’s really horny she’ll orgasm a lot faster so you have to worry less about how long you last.

But if you are still interested in lasting longer then you’ll want to check out this article on How To Last Long In Bed… This article combined with incredible foreplay is like dynamite for your bedroom skills.