foreplay tips

You'd have to try these foreplay tips soon!

You’d have to try these foreplay tips soon!

When it comes to giving your lover a sex session that will really knock her socks off, starting things with a proper foreplay is definitely a priority.

Apart from getting her body ready for lovemaking, it will also promote the ideal release of positive hormones inside her that prep her up for an orgasm (or two) as you go along.

Now while you may already have a few proven foreplay tricks up your sleeve, I’ve come across a few useful pointers that may just help you take her sexual excitement and pleasure levels up a notch the next time you get frisky in bed.

Let me explain what I mean…

Talk dirty to her.

I know this sounds surprising right now, but talking dirty helps fire up her brain to churn out more positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine.

Pulling this off isn’t as complicated as you think, too. You simply have to describe the things that you’ll do to her while you’re at it.

Just keep in mind to physically stimulate her as well in the process so she’ll be on her toes the whole time.

Deliberately misdirect her.

A lot of guys tend to follow a pattern when it comes to foreplay. Besides getting busy with the same erogenous zones, they also apply the same techniques each and every time.

You can use misdirection to fix this issue. And you can pull this off by making her believe that you’re going to stimulate a particular erogenous zone, but actually zeroing in on a different one.

The sensations she’ll experience are going to be more intense because she isn’t expecting them.

Go for erogenous zones you don’t usually stimulate.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are the breasts, vagina and clitoris are the erogenous zones that you usually have in your foreplay stimulation checklist.

But the thing is there are some sexy spots in your partner’s body that you possibly haven’t given the TLC they deserve before like the inner thighs, back of the neck as well as the lower abdomen or “treasure trail.”

Let her call the shots.

Sure you may be the one who’s initiating lovemaking most of the time, but you’ll be surprised with the results when you ask her to lead the way during foreplay.

Besides getting to know your lover better in the bedroom, you’ll also have a few more tricks up your sleeve the next time you get busy between the sheets that will really knock her socks off.

Fire her up for lovemaking with these foreplay tips.

Fire her up for lovemaking with these foreplay tips.

Getting a woman as sexually aroused as you can is essential when it comes to blowing her mind during lovemaking.

Aside from getting her body ready to experience as much pleasurable sensations as it can when the action starts, giving her a bout of awesome foreplay also sets her up for an orgasm as you go along.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, though, foreplay isn’t about doing the things that your lover likes over and over until she’s good and ready.

And doing just that is going to lead to a flat and boring foreplay even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

However, I’ve picked up some really useful foreplay pointers during my extensive research that you can use if you’re looking to take the whole thing to a new level.

Make sure you read on to find out more…

Talk dirty.

Now while this may sound surprising right now, you’re basically getting her brain going when you talk to her dirty in the bedroom.

And just to remind you, a woman’s brain is perhaps the most vital of all erogenous zones in her body. It is basically the one overseeing that your body gets to trigger the changes it needs to get sexually aroused.

If you’re able to set off her brain during foreplay, you’re definitely on the right track.

Don’t go for the obvious erogenous zones.

I’m pretty sure that you usually make a beeline for your partner’s clitoris and breasts when foreplay is in session.

Sure they may be two of the most sensitive erogenous zones that you can pleasure, but she may be already expecting that you’re going for them in the process. And her pleasure levels will take a nosedive when this happens.

Use the element of surprise to your advantage and go for lesser known erogenous zones like the inner thighs, back of the neck as well as the soles of her feet.

Multitasking is key.

Always keep in mind that foreplay is all about prepping up a woman for sexual penetration.

Make it a point to give her the most pleasurable sensations as you can when you’re at it to really pick up the pace on building up her sexual arousal as well as getting her natural juices flowing down there.

Besides stimulating her breasts, you can also fondle her inner thighs or perhaps diddle her clitoris while at it.

These teasing techniques are sure going to get her sexually aroused.

These teasing techniques are sure going to get her sexually aroused.

A woman’s sexual arousal level basically influences how your lovemaking session will turn out.

It’s either your lover will have an amazing time while you’re doing the deed between the sheets or perhaps she won’t find the whole thing pleasurable at all.

But the thing is you’re just noticing that even your A-game moves aren’t hitting their mark when you’re trying to heat up your lover in bed these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. Here are a few useful techniques that you can use that will really boost your chances of pulling it off…

Teasing Technique #1: Make your text messages risqué.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, getting a woman sexually aroused isn’t just about stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones properly until she’s good and ready for some sexual action.

At its simplest, sexual arousal basically starts as soon as her brain activates the hormone-producing glands to churn out positive hormones.

You can easily do these by sending her naughty and kinky text messages describe what you’ll do to her as soon as you two get alone. You can email her your graphic descriptions, too.

Teasing Technique #2: Blindfold her while the action’s going on.

Anticipation is very important when you’re looking to get your partner sexually aroused. And just imagine how much she’ll anticipate when she won’t even have the slightest clue what your next move will be?

Teasing Technique #3: Deliberately mislead her.

Some guys tend to inform their lovers ahead what erogenous zone they will focus on during foreplay, which will make their partners already expect what they will be on for when foreplay is taking place.

You can intentionally mislead her in terms of what spot you’re going to pleasure. For example, you can tell her that you’ll suck her nipples, but you’re going to gently rub her clitoris instead. There are practically countless ways you can do this as well.

Teasing Technique #4: Change your pace and rhythm in the middle of foreplay.

When she’s already moaning and writhing in pleasure, make it a point to go slower or faster to slightly disrupt the pace and rhythm of your foreplay session.

This doesn’t just heighten the pleasurable sensations that your lover will feel, but also make her more excited as you go along since she won’t have the slightest clue what you will do next or how things will go.

So you'd like her to enjoy foreplay more...

So you’d like her to enjoy foreplay more…

So things are already heating up between the sheets…

And if you’re really looking to give your lover a sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon, bringing your A-game into play during foreplay is definitely a priority.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that your best foreplay techniques aren’t hitting their mark anymore nowadays and it’s already affecting your confidence levels in the bedroom big time.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. Here are a few simple foreplay tricks that will definitely help you get the job done…

Make it a point to clean and organize your bedroom.

I know this sounds rather surprising right now, but the hormones that make a woman feel sexually aroused and make her feel happy are generally the same. The more of these hormones are produced and released in her body, the more she’s going to enjoy foreplay.

And if your lover is anything like most women, chances are she’s going to feel happy when she sees that your bedroom is in apple pie order. Now that’s going to boost your chances of really giving her a foreplay experience she will love.

Go as slow as you can easy.

Sure you may be tempted to get fast and furious during foreplay to pick up the pace when it comes to already sexually penetrating your lover, but making her wait for a long time will help stimulate her body produce and release more feel-good hormones.

Just imagine how explosive things will turn out when you do this.

Don’t go straight to the clitoris.

A lot of men mistakenly think that they should make a beeline to the clitoris as soon as they get the chance during foreplay. Sure this erogenous zone may provide a lot of pleasurable sensations when properly stimulated, but it needs to be allowed to prep up first to do so.

Keep in mind not to touch, caress or do anything to your partner’s clitoris unless she is completely sexually aroused.

Apart from the possibility of making her feel awkward or really uncomfortable to the point of pain, she won’t enjoy oral sex altogether even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play, too.

Let her call the shots.

Asking your partner what she likes during foreplay may not sound like a good idea (and may hit your ego a bit), but it will definitely make it easier for her to come during the action. Come to think of it. Who know your lover’s body better than she does?