When it comes to giving your lover a sex session that will really knock her socks off, starting things with a proper foreplay is definitely a priority.
Apart from getting her body ready for lovemaking, it will also promote the ideal release of positive hormones inside her that prep her up for an orgasm (or two) as you go along.
Now while you may already have a few proven foreplay tricks up your sleeve, I’ve come across a few useful pointers that may just help you take her sexual excitement and pleasure levels up a notch the next time you get frisky in bed.
Let me explain what I mean…
Talk dirty to her.
I know this sounds surprising right now, but talking dirty helps fire up her brain to churn out more positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine.
Pulling this off isn’t as complicated as you think, too. You simply have to describe the things that you’ll do to her while you’re at it.
Just keep in mind to physically stimulate her as well in the process so she’ll be on her toes the whole time.
Deliberately misdirect her.
A lot of guys tend to follow a pattern when it comes to foreplay. Besides getting busy with the same erogenous zones, they also apply the same techniques each and every time.
You can use misdirection to fix this issue. And you can pull this off by making her believe that you’re going to stimulate a particular erogenous zone, but actually zeroing in on a different one.
The sensations she’ll experience are going to be more intense because she isn’t expecting them.
Go for erogenous zones you don’t usually stimulate.
If you’re anything like most men, chances are the breasts, vagina and clitoris are the erogenous zones that you usually have in your foreplay stimulation checklist.
But the thing is there are some sexy spots in your partner’s body that you possibly haven’t given the TLC they deserve before like the inner thighs, back of the neck as well as the lower abdomen or “treasure trail.”
Let her call the shots.
Sure you may be the one who’s initiating lovemaking most of the time, but you’ll be surprised with the results when you ask her to lead the way during foreplay.
Besides getting to know your lover better in the bedroom, you’ll also have a few more tricks up your sleeve the next time you get busy between the sheets that will really knock her socks off.