Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” say, first dates are always going to be tricky.
Acing one isn’t about wearing loud and gaudy clothes or perhaps using words or phrases that supposedly make a woman fall in love with you.
However, I came across a few interesting bits and pieces during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help boost your chances of dazzling the woman you’re out with during a first date.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
Keep a close eye on your hygiene.
One of the most important things you should keep in mind when it comes to first dates is that you need to make a woman feel comfortable around you.
Unless she has this notion, chances are your first date would become a disaster anytime soon no matter how hard you try. Sure this may sound tricky, but one simple way to pull this off is keeping your hygiene impeccable.
As it turns out, women are very particular with how you smell and look during a first date. If they think you haven’t paid attention to your hygiene, an alarm rings in their brain and activates the endocrine glands to churn out stress hormones.
And when these anxiety-causing hormones get in the picture, it’s going to be game over for your date.
Don’t overdo it on the compliments.
Now while women like to be complimented on a first date, overdoing the whole thing makes her feel that you’re not sincere.
This is because a woman’s brain stimulates the release of feel good hormones when you give her a compliment. However, going off with one compliment after another convinces her sooner or later that perhaps you’re just complimenting her as a devious strategy.
And this strategy’s goal is to trick her into liking you and score enough brownie points so she’ll go out with you again. If she thinks you’re just taking her for a ride with your compliments, then it’s not going to happen.
So don’t compliment her unless you’re really going to tell a sincere one.
Talk about trivial things on a first date.
When you engage a woman in conversation during a first date, make it a point to keep things trivial and simple.
Rather than ask her about her views on complicated stuff like politics and similar topics, know what her favorite book or movie is. Sure this may sound simplistic, but you can start building an emotional connection with her since she’s already sharing personal information with you.
As a bonus, you can even use these bits and pieces to dazzle her even more as you go along.