Acing a first isn’t something that you can pull off with some “secret technique” like what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are suggesting.
But the thing is I’ve come across a number of useful pointers on how to boost your chances of doing just that during my extensive research into the female psychology.
So if you’re looking to really dazzle the woman you’re going out with on a first date, make sure you read on to learn more…
Keep an eye on your grooming.
I know this sounds simplistic right now, but not making your overall grooming a priority in your first date checklist is just going to lead to disaster before the whole thing even starts.
See, women are very particular with how you look and smell. If you arrive with a hastily prepared getup and a funky odor, she’s just going to feel anxious around you.
Let her in on the planning.
Sure the norm is men should be the ones taking care of a first date’s details, but you’ll have a bigger chance of making it successful if you ask her for her inputs.
Besides making her feel that you’re really into her, you’re also going to get in on some bits and pieces about her that you can use to earn some brownie points along the way.
Punctuality is essential.
I’ve learned during my research into the female psychology that one of the things that women find upsetting when they’re going on a first date is the guy showing up late.
This is because they get the notion that you’re irresponsible and have no time management skills, which get their stress levels going.
And you don’t want that to happen.
Ask trivial stuff.
Never try engaging a woman in a conversation with something that’s complicated just because you’re looking to give her the impression that you are smart.
You’ll be surprised with how much eager she’ll be to exchange ideas with you when you ask her something simple like what’s her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps what TV show she’s following these days.
Keep your hands out in the open.
According to a study, women tend to be more comfortable around guys who give them the notion that they’re open and honest.
One way of doing this is keeping your hands in full view most of the time since this gesture gives their subconscious that you’re not hiding anything from her.