Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date can’t be achieved by simply following some supposedly proven tips.
Each first date you have is going to be a different experience every time. Chances are they’re not going to be as successful as you think they will be.
There is even a big possibility that they’ll have the opposite effect on the woman you’re going out with.
And while we’re on the subject, I’m going to share some first date mistakes I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that you’re probably unknowingly making.
Find out what these are when you follow along…
You plan the whole thing alone.
If you’re anything like most men, chances are you have the principle of planning and organizing a first date by yourself.
Although it may feel like the right thing to do as a guy, it is actually one of the biggest first date no-no’s that you can make. See, you’re basically missing out on your date’s inputs when you do this.
Besides failing to take advantage of knowing the things she likes, you’re also losing your chances to make her feel that you have a high regard for her feedback and participation with the whole thing.
You can easily get on the right track to a successful first date if you let her in on the planning and organizing.
You kick things off with a complicated subject.
Getting a meaningful conversation going during a first date is one of the key factors of making it successful.
You’re not just making her feel more relaxed and comfortable around you, but you’ll also get to know her better in the process. How’s that for two for two?
However, you’re just going to ruin her mood to exchange meaningful ideas if you start things off with subjects that are complicated and difficult. Now while women think smart is sexy, she’s just going to think that you’re a blowhard if you do this.
You’re better off asking trivial questions if you are looking to have a gab fest with her.
You don’t keep a close eye on your grooming.
Sure this may sound really simplistic, but not pulling out all the stops on your grooming easily prevents you from acing a first date.
Women are very particular with how guys look and smell. And if you show up on your first date not quite up to par in this department, you’re sure going to be disappointed with how it will turn out.
(Here are some useful grooming pointers that will help you get on your way.)