Now while you may have already heard that dressing up properly and keeping your grooming up to par can easily boost your chances of acing a first date, they are not just the factors that you should remember to pull the whole thing off.
There are a few key things that a lot of guys seem to overlook when it comes to really making a first date as awesome as can be for a woman.
So if you’re looking to really wow your date when you take her out for the very first time, make sure you have the following pointers in your checklist…
Let her in on the planning.
Some men tend to believe that it’s their job to take care of all the details of a first date.
However, this is actually a mistake that you should avoid since you’re leaving something out of the equation that can easily make or break your chances of scoring a second one: your date’s preferences.
Sure taking the initiative may give you extra brownie points, but she won’t have a great time with you if she doesn’t like the venue, the food or perhaps the ambiance. And this will have a very big effect on her even before you two got started on your first date.
Moreover, she’s also going to think that you really care about her feelings and satisfaction when you ask her to plan the whole thing with you.
Keep the conversation light and trivial.
Chances are you’ve heard once or twice that stimulating a woman’s mind is one of the best ways to really reel her in during a first date.
But the thing is some guys tend to interpret it wrong. They think that they should kick things off with the most technical and complicated subject to get the job done, which will just make a woman feel confused and weirded out.
Going for trivial things like her favorite book, movie or perhaps the vegetable that she least wants to have a bite of is a smarter strategy. Although this may sound rather simplistic, you’ll be surprised how much you’ll encourage her to start sharing ideas with you.
(And always remember that listening intently is a must while you’re at it.)
Absolutely no alcohol.
Some men think that having a glass or two (or perhaps even more) of their favorite brew can help them become more sociable as well as get rid of the jitters on a first date. Believe me it will only cloud your faculties and will most likely make you look awkward and creepy to your date.