fingering tips

Keep these tips in mind before you finger her!

Keep these tips in mind before you finger her!

Fingering your lover is one of the most pleasurable ways that you can mix things up while the two of you are already at it in the bedroom.

But the thing is you’ve got to do the whole thing properly to really knock your partner’s socks off when you’re getting busy with your fingers.

So if you’re looking to give her a fingering session that she won’t forget anytime soon, here are some important pointers that you need to keep in mind…

Cleanliness is key.

Before you even think about fingering your lover when things get extra steamy between the sheets, make it a point to do a very meticulous once-over of your hygiene, especially the state of your hands, fingers and your nails.

Besides ensuring that the experience will be as smooth and comfortable for your partner, you will also prevent the possibility that she’ll get unexpected nicks in her intimate areas in the process.

Make it a point to wash your hands carefully before the action starts or better yet take a long shower.

Fire up her sexual arousal first.

Unlike what a lot of guys wrongly believe, simply fingering a woman as soon as they get the chance is perhaps the biggest mistake that you can ever make when you’re planning to do so.

This is because apart from feeling rather awkward and uncomfortable, she won’t experience as much pleasurable sensations while at it even if you’re already bringing your fingering A-game into play.

Keep in mind to really get her as horny as possible before you get busy south of her border with your fingers. And with the added lubrication, your strokes will surely be smooth in the process.

Don’t zero in on the clitoris.

Now while the clitoris is no doubt the most sensitive of all the erogenous zones in a woman’s body, stimulating it before it’s really ready for action will only lead to disaster.

Apart from making sure that she’s already really sexually aroused, stimulating her clitoris as gently as you can as you go along should be also on your priority list.

Concentrate on the sides of her vagina first before reaching the jackpot.

Let her run the show.

Always keep in mind to ask her how fast or slow you should go as well as the amount of pressure that you ought to apply when pleasuring her with your fingers.

Who would know what really satisfies your partner during fingering except her?