fingering tips

Looking to make fingering even more awesome for her?

Looking to make fingering even more awesome for her?

Fingering your lover is no doubt one of the most versatile that you can do to her when the action’s already getting hot in the bedroom.

Apart from having the opportunity to stimulate some of her extremely sensitive erogenous zones, you won’t be coming anytime soon while you’re at it as well.

Now while you may already have a general idea of how to pull the whole thing off, I’ve picked up a few useful tricks that can make the experience even more awesome for your partner.

Make sure you read on to find out more…

Be a tease.

Most guys tend to go all the way when it comes to getting a fingering session going.

Besides pushing their fingers in completely as soon as they get the chance, they also start things off with a fast rhythm.

Make it a point to tease your lover as much as possible before you really pull out all the stops when you’re getting busy with your fingers.

Make things hotter than usual.

The sensations that you can promote during a fingering session can vary depending on the temperature of your fingers.

Make the experience exciting for her each time by mixing up the temperature of your fingers before you work your magic on her.

You can rub your hands together for a couple of minutes to heat them up a bit or perhaps hold something cold to add a frosty twist to the whole thing.

You’re sure to make her toes curl with this technique.

Stimulate only the outer parts of her vagina at first.

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that a woman’s vagina and clitoris needs time to prep up before they can really churn out the ideal amount of pleasurable sensations they’re capable of.

Make it a point to kick things off by stimulating only the outer edges of her vagina and clitoris the first few minutes to give them time to really get into action.

Pleasuring them before they’re really ready will just make her feel awkward and uncomfortable. And that’s even if you’re bringing your A-game into play while at it, too.

You can also stimulate her other erogenous zones like the lower abdomen and inner thighs in the process.

Switch hands from time to time.

Fingering can be a bit tiring as you go along.

Keep in mind to switch hands from time to time so your stimulation will stay consistent. The more consistent they are, the more pleasurable they will be for your lover.

Fingering do's you should keep in mind.

Fingering do’s you should keep in mind.

When it comes to sex, fingering your lover is definitely something you should have in your checklist.

It doesn’t just help you stave off premature ejaculation, but also gives you added control and variation when you’re already getting busy south of her border.

And when she’s experiencing loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while you’re at it, it won’t be that tricky to make her reach orgasm during the action.

How cool is that?

But the thing is a lot of men tend to overlook some key pointers that they need to have up their sleeve when they’re already fingering their partners. Let me explain what I mean…

Get her really fired up.

Unlike what you see in porn, fingering a woman isn’t about making a beeline for her vagina as soon as the action starts and stimulating her like there’s no tomorrow.

You need to get your lover really fired up for sex first before you get busy down under.

Besides making her wet down there, the vagina and clitoris needs to be activated properly before they can produce pleasurable sensations.

Clean your fingernails.

Sure the vagina may be capable of churning out loads of pleasurable sensations when it’s stimulated, but their performance can be disrupted when your fingernails are unkempt.

Apart from making her feel rough and sore, the gunk that can be under them can also pose a health risk to your partner in the process.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails trim and clean and you’re sure to give her an awesome experience.

Start at the sides.

Remember the time I told you about erogenous zones needing to be activated properly first before they can churn out pleasurable sensations?

Starting at the sides helps get the vagina going. And it’s going to give her a teasing effect on her, too.

Let her guide you.

Now while you may be the one doing most of the work when you’re fingering her, don’t overlook the fact that your partner is the one who can really give you directions on how to take her pleasure levels off the charts.

You’ll be surprised with the results when you let her call the shots, too.

Get a rhythm going.

Never stick to one style of stimulation when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to vary your techniques as you go along.

Apart from keeping her on her toes, you’re also going to cover a lot of sensitive nerve endings while at it.

Surprise her with these surefire fingering pointers.

Surprise her with these surefire fingering pointers.

Fingering is no doubt one of the most versatile sexual techniques you can go for when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets.

Besides being able to stimulate your partner’s clitoris, which is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in her body, you’re also preventing yourself from coming way sooner than you’d like to while at it.

Knocking her socks off with loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while keeping clear of premature ejaculation at the same time? Definitely a win-win situation during lovemaking.

But the thing is a lot of men mistakenly believe that fingering a woman is all about making a beeline to her vagina and clitoris and stimulating them like there’s no tomorrow.

If you’re looking to really give her a mind-blowing experience when you work your magic on her with your fingers, here are some useful pointers you need to keep in mind…

Her sexual arousal should be off the charts.

Unlike what you see in porn flicks, your lover should be as fired up for sex as she should or else the whole thing won’t be as awesome for her even if you’re bringing your fingering A-game into play.

It’s really important that you get her as sexually aroused as you can to make her skin, particularly in and around her erogenous zones, extra sensitive as well as get her juices flowing down there, too.

Prematurely pleasuring your partner will just make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

Check your fingernails.

Sure this sounds a bit surprising right now, but your fingernails can easily make or break your chances of giving her the sexual satisfaction she wants when you finger her.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails ideally trimmed and cleaned or else they will simply annoy or hurt your partner when you get in action.

Moreover, dirty fingernails can also make her sick so keep them properly clean and clipped.

Slow and easy is crucial.

It’s not true that attacking the vagina and clitoris vigorously during fingering is important to immediately get her on track to experiencing a blast of pleasurable sensations. You’re better off by starting things slow and easy to get her in the right rhythm.

Don’t worry. She’ll be the one asking you to speed things up when the action’s already getting hot.

Pleasure her other erogenous zones.

Fingering isn’t about focusing on her vagina and clitoris. Don’t forget to give her other erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs, lower abdomen and back of the neck the attention they deserve in the process.

Looking to finger her? Read these important tips first.

Looking to finger her? Read these important tips first.

Fingering your lover when things are already getting extra steamy in the bedroom is no doubt one of the most versatile sex moves that you can ever do.

Besides giving your partner different sensations compared to when you sexually penetrate her using your penis, working your magic on her using your fingers also helps stave off premature ejaculation while you’re at it.

Now while you may already have a general idea of how to give your lover a fingering session by now, I’m going to walk you through some crucial pointers that you need to keep in mind to make the experience really awesome for her.

So if you’re looking to really knock her socks off the next time you finger your partner, remember to have the following pointers up your sleeve…

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

I know that you think this is just about the hygienic side of things, but it’s actually so much more. See, not giving your hands the grooming TLC they truly deserve can make fingering a horrible experience for your lover.

Apart from making her feel rather uncomfortable when you don’t trim your fingernails like you should, you’re also making her vulnerable to a number of health issues if you just go ahead in use your fingers for sexual penetration without giving them a meticulous scrub first.

Slow and gentle does it.

Some men mistakenly think that going as intensely as they can when fingering starts is the way to go when it comes to making a woman feel good.

Now while you need to stimulate your lover’s vagina to produce pleasurable sensations, doing it like there’s no tomorrow as soon as you get the chance will only lead to disaster.

You need to keep in mind that starting slow and easy is a must to ease your partner into it and keep her sexual arousal up to par. Besides observing her body language, you can also ask her if she’d like it faster and more intense as you go along to find out if you already need to up the ante.

Stimulate her other erogenous zones.

Remember to pleasure her other erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs, nape and lower abdomen to intensify the sensations that your partner will experience when you finger her.

Having a fingering session doesn’t mean that you just have to focus on sexually penetrating her vagina with your fingers. You can also, let’s say, “multitask” while you’re at it.