fingering mistakes

Avoid these fingering mistakes to really knock her socks off.

Avoid these fingering mistakes to really knock her socks off.

Fingering is no doubt one of the most pleasurable moves that you can do when you and your lover are already at it in the bedroom.

Now while you may already have a general idea of what fingering is, I discovered during my extensive research into the female sexuality that a lot of guys seem to overlook a few mistakes that can sap away the pleasure of the whole thing.

So if you’re looking to give her a fingering session that she won’t forget anytime soon, here are a few no-no’s that you should keep in mind…

You start immediately.

The first fingering mistake that we’ll touch on is kicking things off as soon as you get the chance.

Sure you may see this move in porn flicks, but all you’re going to do is make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

This is because the vagina and clitoris need time to prep up so they can really produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.

Give her a foreplay session that she won’t forget anytime soon first and you’re on your way to knocking her socks off while at it.

You don’t trim your fingernails.

Your fingernails can easily make or break your chances at giving her a fingering session that will blow her mind.

Besides significantly reducing the pleasurable sensations that her body is going to churn out while you’re at it, her sexual mood is going to plummet with each stroke you’re going to do as well.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails clean and trimmed before you start the action south of her border.

You only focus on her vagina and clitoris.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, fingering isn’t about stimulating the vagina and clitoris. It also involves taking her sexual excitement levels up a notch in the process.

And one way of pulling this off is keeping her on her toes as you’re bringing your fingering A-game into play.

Don’t just concentrate on her clitoris and vagina when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to stimulate her other erogenous zones like the inner thighs and lower abdomen to intensify the pleasurable sensations she’s experiencing.

You go too fast.

This is another porn flick move that you see in porn. Going too fast when you finger her will just lead to disaster.

Keep in mind to start as slow and easy as you can and you’re on your way to blowing her mind.

Fingering no-no's to keep clear of!

Fingering no-no’s to keep clear of!

Getting busy with your fingers is perhaps one of the most versatile sex moves that you can go for when you and your lover are already heating things up in the bedroom.

Apart from giving your partner loads and loads of pleasurable sensations when done right, it can also help stave off premature ejaculation if you do it in between thrusts.

Sure you may already have a pretty clear idea by now in terms of how to give your lover a fingering session that she’ll like, but I’ve learned a few mistakes during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will ruin the experience for her.

And that’s even if you’re already bringing your fingering A-game into play, too. So the next time you’re looking to knock her socks off in bed using your fingers, keep in mind to stay clear from these no-no’s…

Not giving your fingernails a trim.

Making it a point to give your fingernails a trim before getting in action is a must because of two very important reasons:

First, it keeps your fingers clean and hygienic, which prevents any unexpected health issues in and around her genitals from taking place soon.

Second, untrimmed nails can also be very uncomfortable when you’re already sexually penetrating her with your fingers and can sap away her sexual arousal.

Stimulating the clitoris immediately.

Although the clitoris is the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body, it still needs to get completely ready before it can be stimulated during fingering.

Pleasuring your partner’s clitoris before it’s really ready will just feel awkward and uncomfortable for her no matter what technique you’ll do while at it.

Penetrating her before she’s ideally wet.

The same goes for inserting your fingers inside her vagina before it’s totally ready for stimulation. If it’s not ready, there would be no sexual pleasure for her.

Besides being rather uncomfortable for your lover, doing so will just make her feel anxious and impatient. You probably already have a mental picture of how the whole thing will go when this happens.

Not asking her to guide you.

Now while you may have already fingered your lover lots of times, chances are you still don’t know all the things that gets her off during the same.

Keep in mind to let her in on the action when you’re fingering her. Ask her what she wants. You’ll simply be surprised with the results.