end premature ejaculation

Here are a few tips that will help you prevent premature ejaculation easily...

Here are a few tips that will help you prevent premature ejaculation easily…

When it comes to sex, lasting for as long as you can between the sheets is the top priority to really give your lover the satisfaction she wants.

However, you’re noticing that you just seem to reach the Big O and ejaculate sooner than usual nowadays.

This doesn’t mean that you’ll have to put up with this problem forever though. Here are a few useful tricks that can help you easily extend your bedroom playing time…

Don’t worry too much about coming too soon.

Did you know that your thoughts play a key role in what your body does during a specific situation? This includes preventing premature ejaculation during sex.

If you think that you’re going to reach the point of no return sooner than you should, you’re going to give your body the notion that it should.

Keep in mind to think that you’ll last for as long as you want during sex and you will be surprised how much longer the action in bed becomes.

Just imagine how pleasurable that would be for the both of you.

Focus more on pleasuring your partner.

Premature ejaculation is basically caused by experiencing too much penile sensation in a short period of time.

Prevent this from happening by focusing more on her pleasure instead of yours by giving her a bout of oral sex she won’t forget anytime soon or work your magic on her erogenous zones.

Concentrate on her pleasure more and you’ll be keeping at it for as long as you want.

(Here are a few oral sex pointers that you need to have in your checklist, too.)

Go slow and easy.

Remember what I told you earlier about penile stimulation and premature ejaculation?

Going too fast as soon as you get the opportunity to sexually penetrate your partner will simply lead to disaster.

Make it a point to go slow and easy instead of going full speed ahead during the action. Sure the temptation is great to amp things up, but you’ll find it tricky to control yourself while at it.

And when you lose control, you will go off sooner than you’d like to.

Let her call the shots.

Your lover is going to experience all the sexual pleasure she wants when you’re at it in bed if you let her run the show.

And when she gets all the pleasure she wants, she will reach orgasm (or two) sooner than usual,

Since your partner is calling the shots, you’ll get to do more than just thrust, which will stave off premature ejaculation.

You’ve probably heard of “Tantra” or “Tantric sex” before, but did you know you could use it to last longer in bed?  Let me show you how…

Getting into Tantric Sex opens up a whole other world of possibilities when it comes to sex… Way more in fact than I’ve got time to go into here, but I think knowing some basic ideas about it can help you last longer in bed…

One of the key distinctions Tantric Sex makes is that the focus of sex should not be on the end objective of orgasm, but instead the focus should be on the pleasure of the moment.

Of we both know that most people (especially men, but women too) get caught up in trying to do everything to achieve that orgasm or create it in her, while Tantric sex says this is missing the whole point of sex…

Because the point of sex is to enjoy the whole process.

And this means focussing your attention on the moment and enjoying the experience of the person you’re intimate with.

Now the way this helps you last longer in bed is as follows…

By putting your focus on enjoying the moment you relax a lot more and enjoy yourself.

Instead of worrying constantly “is she enjoying this?” “will I last long enough this time?” “is my penis big enough?” your focus is on her getting pleasure.

When your focus changes you relax a lot more…

And like I talk about in my article on how to prevent premature ejaculation, taking the pressure off yourself and not worrying about premature ejaculation can help you last significantly longer.

This really was a quick introduction to Tantric sex, but it’s well worth learning about if you want to improve the quality of your sex life.

And if you want to learn some other strategies to last longer in bed then check out this article on premature ejaculation cures.