I’m pretty sure that your top priority when it comes to first dates is to make the whole thing as amazing for a woman as you can to easily convince her to go out with you again.
Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus,” though, getting the job done isn’t just about wearing loud clothes to really “get her attention” and “acting like the alpha male” to give her the notion that she’s safe with you.
But come to think of it. If you were to put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit, do you really think that she will go out with another time? Well, there you go.
Interestingly, I’ve learned a few things during my extensive research into the female psychology that may just boost your chances of acing a first date and easily convince a woman to go out with you again…
Keep a very close eye on your overall grooming.
Now while this may sound really surprising to be even here, not having this one on your checklist will just lead to disaster before you know it.
See, women are very particular with how the guys they’re going on a first date with look and smell. If the woman you’re out with thinks that you didn’t take care of your grooming like you should, she’ll just think badly of you.
Choose a place that she’s familiar with.
Sure the idea of picking a luxurious place for your first date may seem like a good idea to really wow a woman, it is actually one of the biggest mistakes that you’ll ever make.
This is because she will have the feeling that she’s going on a job interview instead of a first date. She’ll simply have a surge of stress hormones that will just raise her anxiety levels.
Make it a point to go for places she frequently hangs out in like her favorite bar or restaurant so she’ll be more sociable and relaxed during the same.
Talk about trivial stuff.
Women basically think of first dates as opportunities for them to make new friends. You can already imagine how things will go if you break the ice with romantic stuff.
Keep in mind to ask her easy to digest questions like what her favorite cartoon show is or perhaps the last book she’s pored over and you’re sure to engage her in a meaningful exchange of ideas soon enough.