dating mistakes you should keep clear of

These dating mistakes are sure to repel a woman in no time...

These dating mistakes are sure to repel a woman in no time…

Chances are you’d like to make a date as awesome as you can for a woman when you’re out on one.

And there is a lot of “advice” from so-called “dating gurus” out there that recommend wearing loud clothes and acting like you don’t care to really pull it off.

But the thing is that the stuff they’re dishing out are just going to lead to disaster sooner or later.

Seriously, wearing kooky clothes and making her feel that she’s utterly disposable? They’re basically dating red flags right off the bat.

Looking to really ace your next date with a woman you’ve got your eye on? Here are a few mistakes that you should steer clear of to really make the experience amazing for her…

Dating Mistake #1: You only plan your date on the day itself.

Planning is key when it comes to making a date awesome.

And the outcome won’t be anywhere near this when you just plan the details of your date on the day itself.

Make it a point to take care of the details of the big day (or night) at least three days to a week before the whole thing happens.

Apart from picking a nice venue that she’ll feel cozy in, keep in mind to have an idea of the food and drinks she prefers to really make her feel special during your date.

Dating Mistake #2: You don’t plan your outfit well.

Unlike what most guys mistakenly think, picking an outfit for a date isn’t just about what looks good on you.

You also have to go for clothes and shoes that you’re comfortable in.

This is because your comfort can significantly affect your mood and behavior during a date. If you’re feeling good, you tend to behave properly.

And if you feel that your shirt is too tight or perhaps your shoes hurt the soles of your feet, you already have an idea how your date will turn out.

Dating Mistake #3: You badmouth your previous dates.

You can think of this as something that can be considered as a form of gossiping with your date.

And chances are she won’t appreciate it when you tell her about the (negative) details of the last time you went out with a woman.

Your date is also going to be really defensive because she will have the notion that she’ll possibly be your next topic if the date you two are having won’t turn out to be good.

(Talking about commitment is a no-no, too.)

So you want to get her to go out with you again...

So you want to get her to go out with you again…

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’d like to make a date as wonderful as you can to convince a woman to go out with you again in the future.

However, unlike what so-called “dating gurus” say, doing just that isn’t about wearing ridiculous outfits or perhaps using rather cheeky pickup lines.

I’ve learned a few useful things during my extensive research into the female psychology to pull this off though. Make sure you read on to find out key mistakes to steer clear of when you’re trying to dazzle a woman during a date…

Dating Mistake #1: You bring a lot of gifts.

Now while giving a woman a simple present during a date is a sweet gesture that definitely earns you a lot of brownie points, bringing too much gifts while at it is already something that sends alarm signals racing in her mind.

This is because you are giving her the notion that you are trying to buy her affection so she will go out with you again sometime. Although I’m not saying that you should never bring a present again on a date, remembering that one will already suffice can help a lot.

Dating Mistake #2: You compliment her a lot.

Let me get this straight. Women like to be complimented. They like to be told how pretty they are, how nice their clothes are or perhaps how their shoes fit them perfectly.

However, the thing is churning out a barrage of compliments in a very short period of time makes a woman feel that you’re not just pulling her leg, but also give her the notion that you’re some guy that she couldn’t trust.

Keep in mind that giving her a couple of sincere, well-timed compliments already does the trick.

Dating Mistake #3: You get too touchy-feely.

Although having physical contact during a date is inevitable, deliberately getting touchy-feely with a woman before you even build an emotional connection with her is an absolute no-no.

Apart from making her feel awkward and annoyed, there will also be a sudden spike of stress hormones in her body. And when this happens, she will feel anxious, impatient and just wanting to leave in no time.

One thing you can do is wait for her to touch you first. If you play cards right, chances are she will sooner or later so just be patient and stay cool.

Dating no-no's you should watch out for.

Dating no-no’s you should watch out for.

I’m quite sure that you’d like to really get the job done with flying colors when it comes to taking a woman out for a date.

And I am really disappointed with what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” tell guys when acing a date is concerned…

They say that not only there are certain words you can use to make your date get the hots for you almost instantly, there are also fashion options you can go for to really hook her in. It’s all really quite ridiculous if you ask me…or any woman out there.

However, there are actually mistakes that you should keep in mind if you’d like to dazzle a woman during your date. Make sure you follow along to find out what they are…

Don’t overdo it on the compliments.

Sure complimenting your date is a nice way to make her feel you appreciate her, but doing it like crazy already gives her the opposite notion.

She will just think that you are pulling her leg and when this happens, stress hormones get in the picture, which will only make her feel anxious and impatient. Not a good way to kick off a date, don’t you think?

Don’t take listening to her when she’s talking for granted.

Did you know that listening to a woman intently helps you build an emotional connection with her? This is because she will feel that you are really interested in her and your actions are genuine.

As an added bonus, apart from making her like you, you can also catch a thing or two that you can use to dazzle her even more sooner or later. Interestingly, even the most trivial of things like her favorite book or movie can make her feel more comfortable around you.

That can be your stepping stone to another date. How cool is that?

Never sound desperate.

Don’t kick off your date by saying how long you’ve been looking for a girlfriend or perhaps you still haven’t found your ideal partner since this will only make you look desperate.

Not mentioning it will also make your date feel really awkward. Wait until she initiates a discussion about relationships and similar stuff. Apart from making you look desperate for a relationship, you will also make her feel that you’re creepy.

Never talk about how many kids you want or what your wedding plans are in the future while you’re at it as well.

 

These mistakes can prevent you from getting that second date...

These mistakes can prevent you from getting that second date…

I’m pretty sure that scoring a second date is on top of your checklist when you’re taking out a woman you like for the very first time.

And unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, there are no magic techniques that ensure that you’re going to do just that instantly.

However, apart from making sure that you look and smell good, I learned a few useful tips during my extensive research into the female psychology that may just help you boost your chances of convincing your date to go out with you again if you play your cards right.

Make sure you read on to learn what they are…

Don’t take the small details of your date for granted.

A successful date doesn’t just happen because you’re really lucky. A bit of planning goes a very long way to achieve this. It is really smart to take care of key details like the venue, knowing if she’s allergic to stuff as well as what her favorite foods and drinks are.

Come to think of it. Just winging the whole thing all the way will only lead to disaster sooner or later. Remember not to make it too fancy though to avoid giving her the notion that you are trying too hard to impress her.

Don’t go for serious topics when you have a conversation.

One of the things a lot of guys mistakenly believe is talking about something intellectual during a first date makes them look smart to a woman. Well, I don’t mean to burst your bubble, but it only does the opposite.

Keep in mind that picking trivial things to break the ice is the best option. Ask her about her favorite book or what her favorite movie is. Ask what her favorite dessert is or perhaps what her favorite activities during summer are.

Sure this may sound surprising, but simple things go a very long way during a first date conversation. In my opinion, the woman you’re taking out for the first time will gladly talk about stuff she is really familiar with than stuff you only think can earn you brownie points.

Don’t make her feel she bores you.

Listening to your date is very important if you’d like to convince her to go out with you again because it sets off a process in her body that makes her more comfortable with you. When she feels you are listening to her intently, her brain releases positive hormones.

These hormones take away her anxiety and nervousness about the whole thing. And when that happens, she will be more open and game with you, which easily means your chances of a second date have just become higher.