I’m sure the ultimate goal you have when you’re taking a woman out for the first time is scoring a second date…
However, what really disappoints me a lot is the way some so-called “dating gurus” give out advice that tend to do more harm than good to guys looking to achieve this.
Just to give it to you straight, there are no specific words that can make your date fall for you or perhaps a rather garish method of dressing that boosts your attractiveness to women like these self-proclaimed dating experts emphasize.
Now while there are no magic bullets that can instantly make you convince a woman to go out on a date with you again, there are a few mistakes that you should avoid to help boost your chances of pulling off the same.
Make sure you read on to find out what these are…
You don’t keep a close eye on your hygiene.
Here’s the thing…
You’re already at risk of not convincing the woman you’re on a date to go out a second time with you if you didn’t give your hygiene the attention it deserves the moment you show up.
See, women are very particular with the way a guy looks and smells. If your date feels that your hygiene isn’t up to par, chances are she won’t be that eager to have another rendezvous with you anytime soon.
So make it a point to take a meticulous shower, splash on some deodorant, pick decent clothes (and not some eccentric number like some “gurus” say) as well as give your teeth and gums a good cleaning. Interestingly, knowing you look good also boosts the happy hormones in your body, making you feel more confident.
You are simply free-wheeling it.
Although spontaneity is something women really appreciate during a date, leaving all of its details unplanned will lead to problems sooner or later. You should pick a place that’s nice where you can talk properly and enjoy each other’s company without a hitch.
Simply picking a venue at the last minute is a recipe for disaster. This doesn’t mean that you should go for an extra posh restaurant either. It will make your date feel that you’re either snooty or trying too hard to impress her.
Asking her where she wants to have your date is also a great idea.
You are overdoing it on the booze.
Now while it isn’t prohibited at all to have alcoholic beverages on a date, indulging too much in your favorite brew while at it can easily lead to things that can prevent you from scoring a second one.
(And just to make things scarier, guzzling too much alcohol frequently can lead to issues in the bedroom as well.)
Apart from affecting the way you talk and interact with your date, chances are you’ll be doing something regretful on your part without even knowing it. How’s that for a second date deal breaker?