If you don’t know where the clitoris is… Or worse yet, you don’t know what it is… then let me enlighten you…

The clitoris is part of a woman’s that is very sensitive and able to create intense pleasure.

In fact it has the same amount of nerve endings as the head of man’s penis, but it’s only a fraction of the size.

If you want to please a girl in bed, then it’s an absolutely must that you know where to find it and how to pleasure it…

So first up – Where to find it…

The clitoris is found above the entrance to the vagina just underneath where the outer lips of the vagina meet at the top.

Often to get to it you’ll have to go feel just underneath where the lips meet.

Now typically the clitoris is pretty small – about the size of a small bean, but this varies greatly from woman to woman.

Some women have a large clitoris that is easy to find and very visible, but for other women it is so small that you can only find it by knowing where it is rather than spotting it or feeling it out.

The size of a woman’s clitoris also varies depending on how aroused she is.  Typically the clitoris will swell in size as a woman becomes more aroused, which is convenient for you, because that makes it easier to find.

Now if the above description isn’t enough for you you can always use the wonderful power of the web to check out some pictures for more detail (Wikipedia’s Clitoris section is a good place to start).

So now that you know where it is – What do you do with it…

Well explaining in full could make this a rather long article, so for now just try this…

After taking your time with foreplay and getting your woman very aroused start by lightly stroking the clitoris.  If she’s not lubricated already then either go back to some more foreplay or use an artificial lubrication like Astroglide.

Remember the clitoris is a very sensitive part of a woman’s body so stimulation without lubrication can be painful to her.

From your light stroking develop slowly into more intense stimulation.  Feel free to experiment with different types, but a great place to start is with using a circular motion.

And while you’re trying out different types of stimulation pay close attention to your woman’s reactions until you find a type of stimulation that she really likes… At which point just stick with what you’re doing until she reaches orgasm.

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