best first date tips

First date tips you should always keep in mind.

First date tips you should always keep in mind.

Making the whole thing as successful as you can is no doubt the top priority in your checklist when you’re going out with a woman on a first date.

Besides boosting your chances of convincing her to go on a date with you again, giving her a positive experience also makes it easier to establish an emotional connection with her as you go along.

Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” are suggesting, pulling it off doesn’t involve super-secret fashion techniques or perhaps saying words or phrases that instantly make a woman feel closer to you as soon as you utter them.

I’ve picked up a few simple pointers during my extensive research into the female psychology that will help you get on your way to a successful first date. Why don’t we start the ball rolling right now?

Plan your getup ahead of time.

Perhaps the most important thing that you should keep in mind when you’re looking to make a first date successful is your grooming.

See, how you look and smell is the very first thing that a woman will check out.

And if she thinks that your grooming isn’t up to par, you’ll just end up making her feel that you’re sloppy and irresponsible.

I know that sounds a bit harsh, but it’s the truth.

You should arrive before she does.

Women are very particular with time management and if you show up after her on a first date, you’re simply going to send her the wrong message.

Make it a point to get there at least 10 to 15 minutes ahead of her.

Apart from giving her the notion that you don’t have an issue with punctuality, you can also spare a few minutes checking how you look and smell as well as have a quick rundown of your plans for the big day (or night).

Don’t spend most of your time checking out your phone.

Acing a first date primarily involves giving the woman you’re going out with the idea that you’re really interested in her.

And if you’re just going to spend most your first date checking your phone for status updates, tweets, texts or perhaps what Pokemon are lurking about, you are simply in for a lot of disappointment before you know it.

This also applies to other gadgets that you may have with you, including your watch.

Make it a point to focus all of your attention on her the whole time.

Keep these tips in mind next time you're going on a first date!

Keep these tips in mind next time you’re going on a first date!

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off immediately.

There are key factors that you should take note of to really wow the woman you’re going out with and easily convince her to have another date with you soon.

So if you’re looking to take your chances of acing your next first date, here are some important tips that you should keep in mind…

Get her in on the planning.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you think that all of the planning and organizing of a first date should be your responsibility.

However, you’re already missing out on a number of opportunities to impress the woman you’re going on a date with if you have this mindset.

Besides having an idea of the stuff that she likes, you will also make her feel that you’re really interested in her, which easily scores you a lot of brownie points in her book while at it.

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

Sure this may sound simplistic, but not making it a point to keep a close eye on your grooming for a first date will already lead to disaster before you know it.

This is because women are very particular with how a man looks and smells. If you don’t make the cut, she’s just going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body that won’t raise her anxiety levels, but also make her feel impatient in the process.

Just imagine how your first date will turn out when this happens.

(Here are some key grooming tips that will surely get you on the right track.)

Switch your mobile phone off.

The woman you’re going on a first date with will simply feel that she’s boring you to death if you check out your phone every couple of minutes.

Keep in mind that your texts, voice mails, status updates and tweets can wait for later. This also applies to other gadgets that you may have like tablets and mp3 players.

Listen to her attentively.

Always remember to listen to her as closely as you can when you manage to engage her in a meaningful conversation.

Besides getting to know her better, you’ll also promote a boost in positive hormones in her body, which will make her feel comfortable, relaxed and excited.

And just imagine what will happen when she starts to associate these feelings with you…