Acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off by wearing loud clothes and acting like the alpha male as pushed by so-called “dating gurus.”
I’ve learned a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help you boost your chances of convincing her to go out on a date with you again.
Make sure you read on to learn more…
Be very conscious of your grooming.
How you look and smell are the two key factors that a woman will check out when you’re going out on a first date with her.
Make it a point to really pull out all the stops in ensuring that you will look and smell like a million bucks.
Besides planning your outfit at least two days ahead, keeping in mind to wear clean shoes should also be a priority in your checklist.
Arriving on time or earlier than designated gives her the message that you’re responsible and has good time management skills.
Make it a point to arrive at least 10 minutes ahead of her on your first date to avoid having this effect on her.
You can also improve your first date checklist while you’re waiting for her.
Let her in on the planning.
Now while it’s the norm that guys should be in charge when it comes to planning a first date, letting her in on the same has its awesome benefits.
See, besides picking up a few things that you can use to dazzle her as you go along, you will also make her feel that you’re really into her.
How’s that for a few extra brownie points for you?
Ask trivial questions.
Engaging the woman you’re on a first date with in a conversation isn’t that tricky at all.
Starting things off with a trivial question like asking her what her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps the TV series that she’s following these days is a great strategy to have in your checklist.
And no matter how smart you think it is, leading with technical and complicated topics won’t cut it.
Put your phone on silent mode.
Putting your phone away during a first date not just helps you fully concentrate on the woman you’re out with, but also gives her the idea that you’re really into her.
I know this may be tricky to do, but putting those texts, videos, status updates and other stuff on hold actually boosts your chances of landing a second date.