Not a fan of foreplay? Here’s a great method to use so you don’t have to spend the first 30 minutes under the sheets waiting for sex…
Now if you’re a guy who doesn’t really enjoy foreplay that much (or at least loves sex 1000x more than foreplay) then that’s OK.
But one fact you will have to face is that turning on a woman doesn’t happen instantly.
Men can be aroused in a matter of seconds, but for women this just isn’t the case.
So the trick here is to be wise about HOW and WHEN you arouse your women.
You see, the “old-school” thinking behind foreplay is that when you’re in bed with a woman you need to start turning her on, therefore you engage in foreplay.
And if you subscribe to this way of thinking then unfortunately foreplay in bed is pretty much unavoidable, because like I said earlier women need at least some time to be turned on.
Now if as soon as you get into bed you want to start having sex then you’re going to need a different approach.
And this is what I recommend…
Perform foreplay THROUGHOUT THE DAY.
Whenever you interact with your woman during the day, whether it be via text, phone, e-mail or in person – start turning her on.
And just like you would in foreplay slowly raise the intensity and intimacy of the stimulation.
So start by talking about stroking her hair and kissing her neck first, and then later move on to talking about her more intimate areas and what you’re going to do to them.
If you sprinkle this kind of interaction throughout the day with your woman, then by the time it comes to sex she will so horny you won’t believe it.
Remember a woman’s mind is INCREDIBLY active and she’ll be fantasising all day about you if you stimulate her well with your conversation.
And what you’ll find is that all this conversation IS YOUR FOREPLAY.
The purpose of foreplay is to turn a woman on and to prepare her for sex… And this is exactly what you’re doing by communicating with her sexually and teasing her all day long.
So when you finally meet in bed she’ll be so horny that you won’t need the “traditional” foreplay before having sex… She’ll be ready for it.
Seriously… The power of this approach when done right is AMAZING.
And, if you so wish, eliminates the need for foreplay in the bedroom.
(Of course, if you do decide to add some “traditional” foreplay then the results will be even more powerful)
So now you know how to skip foreplay you better be sure you can last long in bed! Check out this article on Premature Ejaculation to make sure you avoid it from happening.