If you’re anything like most guys, having anal sex with your lover is definitely one of the things that’s in your bedroom action checklist.
And now that you’ve finally convinced your partner to try doing it in the backdoor, I’d just like to emphasize that it’s not just about sexually penetrating her in another place.
It’s much more than just slapping on some lube, too!
You’ve got to keep a few key pointers in mind so you can make the experience not just amazing for you, but for her as well.
Let’s start things off right now…
You’ve got to get her really going in bed.
Sure it’s anal sex, but you’re still going to make your lover really sexually aroused to get the action going akin to regular vaginal sex.
If she’s not warmed up as she needs to, chances are she won’t be that eager to try the whole thing.
Besides working your magic on her physically, remember to excite her mentally while you’re at it as well.
Get your hands on lots of lube.
The anus isn’t equipped with glands that produce and release a natural lubricant like the vagina.
So you need to grab a lot of lube to make the action smooth and easy for the both of you or else the experience will become rather uncomfortable to the point of being painful for her.
And that’s just going to ruin her mood before you’ve even really got started.
Oh and one more thing.
Make it a point to also go for the water-based variety when you’re shopping for lube.
Start slow and easy.
Just like sexually penetrating your lover’s vagina, keep in mind to get the action going as slow and gentle as you can when you’re already doing it.
Unlike what you normally see in porn movies, anal sex is not supposed to be rough and wild – especially when you’re just starting the whole thing.
Slow and easy does it. Your partner will give you the cue herself if she wants the action to become more, shall we say, “vigorous.”
Let her guide you through.
Remember that you’ve got to let your lover call all the shots during anal sex.
The moment your partner feels that she’s not enjoying the action anymore, her eagerness to go on will be ruined.
Make it a point to ask her from time to time if what you’re doing isn’t uncomfortable or painful even a bit.
And you can expect that everything will be just fine as you go along.