anal sex tips

Keep these anal sex tips in mind to give her an awesome experience.

Keep these anal sex tips in mind to give her an awesome experience.

So after a very long time of convincing, you’ve finally gotten your lover’s nod to try anal sex in the bedroom…

Now while you’ve been waiting for a long time for this to happen, you don’t have even the slightest clue how to go about it. What now?

There’s no need to worry just yet, though.

I’ve gathered some very useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will surely help you give her an experience that she’ll like when you two give anal action a go.

Let me walk you through them…

Anal Sex Pointer #1: Get her as sexually aroused as you can.

Unlike the stuff that you see in porn flicks, having anal sex isn’t just about bending your partner over as soon as you get the chance and start sexually penetrating her from behind.

Akin to vaginal sex, you’ll need to get her as horny as you can before you kick things off.

There are actually two good reasons for this: first, she’ll be more relaxed to get the action going and second, she’ll do away with her inhibitions, which will make her feel more relaxed and adventurous in the bedroom.

Anal Sex Pointer #2: Have as much lube as possible.

The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce its natural lubrication unlike the vagina. And it needs a bit of help in this department or else your anal sex experience will just end up in disaster.

Besides only making your lover feel very uncomfortable, she will just cross off anal sex in her checklist of bedroom activities before you know it.

Keep in mind to stock up on enough lube prior to your backdoor performance. Can’t figure out how much you need to get your hands on? Grab how much you think is enough and double that amount.

Anal Sex Pointer #3: Be very slow and gentle.

Sure the temptation to plow her behind like there’s no tomorrow can be very tough to shrug off, keeping in mind to take things slow and easy is the way to go when it comes to anal sex. Ask her first when you want to take things up a notch so you won’t ruin her mood.

Anal Sex Pointer #4: Let her guide you.

Anal sex is a different experience for every woman. So if you’re looking to make your partner enjoy the whole thing, remember that it’s smart to let her call the shots to avoid mistakes.

So you'd like to give her an amazing anal sex session...

So you’d like to give her an amazing anal sex session…

Anal sex is no doubt one of the things that you’ve always wanted to have a go in the bedroom with your partner.

And now that she finally said yes to your advances at having anal action after trying to convince her for a very long time, you’re not quite sure what to do next.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Here are a few key anal sex tips that you should always remember to make the experience awesome for the both of you…

Her sexual arousal is crucial.

Unlike what you see in porn movies, sexually penetrating a woman in the anus isn’t just about making a beeline to her butt as soon as things get really hot in bed.

But the thing is your partner won’t be that comfortable to get a bout of anal sex going if she isn’t that fired up for lovemaking.

Apart from not getting any pleasurable sensations at all when the action’s hot, there’s even a chance that you won’t be able to anally penetrate her in the first place.

You’ve got to have lots of lube.

The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce natural lubrication like the vagina, so you’ve got to give it a hand when it comes to that department.

Make it a point to have lots of lubrication as well. Try to get the amount that you think is enough and double it.

Apply the lube as liberally as you can and put on some again as soon as you feel that things aren’t as smooth as before.

Slow and easy does it.

Now while the temptation to get fast and furious the moment you get in action is great, it is actually the worst decision you will ever make during anal sex.

You’ll just end up making her really uncomfortable while at it.

Keep in mind to make your pace and rhythm as slow as you can. Don’t worry, you can pick things up when your partner will already get her anal sex groove on.

Ask her how she wants it.

This is perhaps the biggest thing to remember when it comes to anal sex.

It is ideal that you ask your partner how she feels as well as how she wants it as you go along since her sensations can either make or break your anal sex session.

Do it every few minutes or so and you’ll be good to go.

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Always remember these important anal sex pointers!

So here’s the situation…

You’ve finally convinced your lover to give anal sex a go, but you’re not quite sure how to really pull the whole thing off.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. I’ll walk you through some very important anal sex pointers that you should take note of to really make the experience as pleasurable for your partner…

Don’t copy pornstar moves.

Now while a lot of guys think that the most sensible thing to do is get a few anal sex tips from watching porn movies, it’s actually the worst move that you can go for.

See, like the term implies, a porn “movie” is played by actors and actresses, which work under the guidance of a director. You don’t see the work put in to make the scenes, the cuts, the edits as well as the other stuff that goes on when the camera rolls.

And chances are the both of you are just going to be disappointed when you copy pornstar moves during anal sex.

Warm her up as much as you can.

Before you even think about doing anything, make it a point to really get your partner as sexually aroused as possible. If she’s not totally in the mood, chances are you won’t be able to convince her to loosen up for anal action no matter how hard you try.

Have lots of lube ready.

The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce its natural lubrication and needs a bit of help to make sexual penetration smooth and easy. You’ll need a lot of lube to pull the whole thing off.

Make it a point to apply a liberal amount on your penis and on her anus as well. Just to reiterate, keep in mind to put on a lot. Sure this may sound rather surprising, but it’s a must that you put on a liberal amount.

And when you feel that your thrusts while the action is already going on aren’t as smooth and easy as before, it’s time to reapply.

Gauge her reactions with your thrusts.

Don’t just go ahead and stick the whole thing as soon as you get the chance. Keep in mind to start as slow and easy as you can.

Begin by just getting the tip in. When she’s okay with it, stick it in deeper. I know this sounds quite tedious, but she will feel more relaxed while at it and enjoy the experience more in the process.

So you're looking to make anal sex more pleasurable for her...

So you’re looking to make anal sex more pleasurable for her…

If you are anything like most men, chances are you’ve got anal sex in your sexual bucket list. And now that you’ve finally convinced your lover to give it a go, what now?

There’s no need to worry just yet if you’re still not that seasoned when it comes to anal sex though. Make sure you follow along to learn a few key tips to give her a pleasurable experience while at it…

Give her encouraging words.

Sure the idea of finally getting a round of anal sex is really exciting for you, immediately getting to it when things get extra steamy between the sheets won’t lead to the results that you’re hoping for.

Keep in mind to start things off by encouraging your partner and making her as comfortable as you can. Besides helping boost the amount of positive hormones in her body, she will feel more relaxed in the process, which will make the experience smoother for the both of you.

Remember to be as sincere while at it, too, since the effect will be the opposite when she feels that you’re only trying to butter her up.

Have the right amount of lube on hand.

Unlike the vagina that is naturally wired to produce and release lubrication when it preps up for lovemaking, the anus doesn’t have this attribute.

This is why you’ll need lube (make it water-based as well if possible) to properly get the job done. And when it comes to the question how much lubrication you will need for anal sex, the answer would be a lot.

More is definitely the way to go when it comes to lube and anal sex.

Besides needing an ample amount to make things as smooth as possible when you’re already sexually penetrating in the anus, you will also need to reapply every few minutes or so to keep things slick and suave.

When you feel that the smoothness has reduced even a bit, put on more lubrication.

Go as slow and easy as you can.

Hold your horses!

I know the temptation of making a beeline for her anus and start getting the job done is much too high, but it’s not recommended if you want to make her like the whole thing.

Keep in mind to go slow and gentle in the process…unless she tells you herself that she’d like to take things up a notch.