anal sex tips

Here are anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

Here are anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are anal sex is one of the things in your bedroom bucket list.

And now here’s the thing…

Your lover has finally given the green light to action in the backdoor, but you still haven’t done it yet.

There’s no need to worry, though. Here are a few key anal sex pointers you need to keep in mind that will help ensure that the experience will be good for the both of you…

Get her really sexually aroused.

Unlike what you see in porn movies, getting a woman ready for anal sex isn’t about propping her up in the position you want and start pumping away.

You’d have to properly get your partner sexually aroused first. Besides taking away her inhibitions in the bedroom, a really horny woman will also be more game in the bedroom.

(Now while you may already have a few tricks up your sleeve to make your lover ready for action between the sheets, exciting her mind is also a useful tip to keep in mind.)

Have lots of lube ready.

The anus doesn’t have the natural ability to produce its very own lubrication like the vagina does.

You have to get your hands on a lot of lube to make anal sex an awesome experience for the both of you. Having little will just lead to disaster before you know it.

Make it a point to apply a liberal amount of lube on your penis and her anus before the action starts. Keep in mind to apply again when you feel that your thrusts aren’t as smooth like they used to.

Start with the tip.

The sensations that a woman will experience during anal sex can be a bit awkward and uncomfortable if you immediately thrust your whole penis inside her.

Remember that you should begin the action with only the tip. If she doesn’t react or say that you should take it easy for a bit, thrust a little more.

Repeat this process until she’s comfortable with the whole thing.

Let her guide you.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, anal sex isn’t an activity that guys should dominate. It’s actually the other way around.

If she feels that the experience isn’t as pleasurable for her, you may be in for a lot of disappointment as you go along.

Make it a point to let her guide you and the experience will be amazing for you two.

Anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

Anal sex tips you need to keep in mind.

I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of the things in your lovemaking bucket list. And now you’ve finally convinced your partner to give it a go.

Now while you’ve already got a general idea of what anal sex is, a lot of men tend to have the wrong notion about it. They think that you should do it like what you see in porn flicks.

And that will just lead to disaster before you know it.

What’s really interesting is I’ve come across a few pointers that will help you make the whole experience pleasurable for you and your lover.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Have a lot of lube ready.

Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce its own lubrication, the anus needs a lot of help in this department. This is the reason why you need to have a lot of lube on hand to make things as smooth and easy as possible during anal sex. Make it a point to apply a liberal amount of lube all over your penis before starting to sexually penetrating her in the backdoor.

Start with only the tip.

I know the urge to shove it all the way in is great when you’re having anal sex, but it’s best if you only start with the tip, especially when it’s just the first time you’re doing it. See, this not only helps your lover adapt to the sensations that she’ll experience, but also prevent her from feeling awkward and uncomfortable in the process. You can go in deeper as you go along, though.

Slow is the way to go.

Going slow not just makes the sensations that the both of you will feel more intense, but it will also keep her from feeling uncomfortable while at it. This is because she’ll just end up feeling sore when you go fast and furious while your anal sex session is going on. And as a bonus, it will also keep you from coming sooner than you’d like to as well.

Re-apply from time to time.

Applying a lot of lube when you start your anal sex session isn’t enough. You’ll need to apply again and again during the course of it. As soon as you feel that things aren’t as smooth and easy as before, make it a point to re-apply a liberal amount of lube as soon as you can.

Reasons why she's still not convinced to try anal sex yet.

Reasons why she’s still not convinced to try anal sex yet.

Sexually penetrating your lover in the backdoor is no doubt one of the things that are in your lovemaking bucket list.

Apart from the promise of experiencing new sensations that you haven’t felt before, having a bout of anal sex with your partner also makes you feel really macho.

But the thing is you’re still having a tricky time convincing her to give anal sex a go no matter how hard you try.

This doesn’t mean that your chances of making her say yes to anal action are nil, though.

Interestingly, I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that there are key factors that can prevent a woman from being swayed to try “dipping it in the fudge pot.”

Why don’t you follow along to find out what these are?

Reason #1: She thinks it’s dirty.

Let’s start things off with perhaps the biggest reason why a lot of women tend to shy away from anal sex: hygiene.

Now while the anus is the part of the body where fecal matter comes out of, you won’t tend to get in contact with it because there’s a physiological barrier that keeps it in place.

You can also use a condom for extra protection, too.

Reason #2: She thinks it will just be pleasurable for you.

There are actually a lot of sensitive nerve endings that are located in and around the anus’s sphincter muscle that produce pleasurable sensations when stimulated.

Now while they aren’t as much compared to the ones that are in the vagina and clitoris, they can still get her going when they’re stimulated properly.

Reason #3: She thinks it will be uncomfortable.

Yes, anal sex can be uncomfortable…without getting your hands on lots of lube first. This is because the anus doesn’t have the ability to produce natural lubrication like the vagina does.

As long as you’ve got the lube, you’re good to go.

Reason #4: You don’t talk to her about it outside the bedroom.

A lot of guys make the mistake of just asking their partners to have anal sex in the middle of a lovemaking session.

Besides making a woman feel pressured, it will also raise her anxiety levels because she will have the notion that she’s being forced to do something she doesn’t like.

If you’re looking to really get her mind going about anal sex, discuss it with her outside the bedroom.

Sure this isn’t something that will make her say yes to the whole thing immediately, but she won’t feel pressured and anxious in any way when you do.

Here are some important anal sex pointers you need to remember

Here are some important anal sex pointers you need to remember

I’m pretty sure that getting an anal sex session with your lover is one of the things that’s in your bedroom bucket list.

Apart from the promise of experiencing sensations that you’ve never felt during lovemaking before, what guy hasn’t thought of sexually penetrating his lover in the anus?

But now here’s the thing…

Anal sex isn’t what you see in porn movies where the actor simply sexually penetrates the actress in the anus as they go along. Doing this in real life will just lead to disaster before you know it.

There are actually some key things that you need to keep in mind to make the whole thing pleasurable for you and your partner.

So if you’re looking to have anal sex with your lover soon, here are a few factors that you have to take note of…

Discuss it out of the bedroom.

If your partner is anything like most women, chances are she thinks that anal sex is taboo.

Besides being unnatural, getting sexually penetrated in the anus will just feel uncomfortable and dirty in her mindset.

This is the reason why you need to discuss it outside of the bedroom before you even think of having anal sex with her when you’re at it between the sheets. Make it a point to ask her how she feels about it and how you can ease her to give it a try.

Simply telling her that you’d like to pleasure her anally when you’re already having sex will just give her the notion that she has been blindsided and ruin her mood almost immediately.

Get your hands on a lot of lube.

Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce lubrication for sexual purposes, the anus cannot. Keep in mind to have enough lube on hand before thinking about getting on track to anal sex when things are already heating up in bed.

Gauging if you’ve already got enough lube isn’t that tricky. You simply have to get the amount that you think is ideal and double it.

Integrate the anus during foreplay.

Most women tend to keep clear of anal sex because they are not familiar with the sexual pleasure that it can provide.

You’ve got to add the anus in your list of erogenous zones to pleasure when you’re heating things up in bed to show her that it can also be a source of sexual pleasure like the vagina, breasts and clitoris.

Apart from licking and kissing the anus, you can also gently caress it with your fingers. Don’t forget to make your lover give it the right cleaning first to prevent any unpleasant issues like pinkeye from possibly happening.

Slow and easy is the way to go.

Making it a point to go slow and easy is important when it comes to anal sex. It’s one crucial way of easing her into it.

Going full speed ahead as soon as you get the chance will just be extremely uncomfortable for her and possibly the end of your anal sex session.