anal sex mistakes

Always avoid these anal sex mistakes!

Always avoid these anal sex mistakes!

So you’ve finally convinced your lover to have anal sex with you…

Now while you already have a general idea of how to do it, a lot of men mistakenly believe that pulling the whole thing off is simply about making a beeline to her anus to sexually penetrate it.

Doing just that will only make your partner feel awkward and really uncomfortable. And you can already picture out how your anal sex session will turn out as you go along.

Interestingly, I’ve learned some key mistakes you need to avoid when you’re looking to give a woman an anal sex session she’ll like.

Let me explain what I mean…

Not getting her really fired up for lovemaking.

A woman’s sexual arousal level plays a key role when it comes to her anal sex enjoyment.

See, the hornier she is when you’re already at it in the bedroom, the more pleasurable the sensations she will experience when the action takes place.

Your lover will also be more game between the sheets when her sexual arousal is off the charts, too.

You don’t discuss it outside the bedroom.

Simply introducing the idea that you want to sexually penetrate your partner’s anus when you’re already heating things up in bed with her is just going to sap her mood for lovemaking.

This is because she’ll just feel that you’re making her do something she doesn’t want to, which can make her more anxious than sexually excited.

Besides making her feel uneasy, she won’t also be that adventurous in bed when her sexual arousal level takes a dive.

You have only a bit of lube.

Getting your hands on a lot of lube is a priority if you’re looking to make anal sex pleasurable for a woman.

See, the anus isn’t like the vagina that can produce its own natural lubrication. And if the former isn’t that well lubricated, the sensations that your lover will experience when you’re already getting busy in the backdoor are just going to be rough and sore.

Here’s a simple technique you can use to make sure if you’ve got enough lube for anal sex: picture out the ideal amount you think you’ll need, double it and you’re done.

You don’t go slow and easy.

Akin to the vagina, going fast and furious on the anus when you’re already sexually penetrating it is just going to lead to disaster.

Keep in mind to go at it slow and easy. Besides making the sensations she’s going to experience more intense, you also won’t be prone to coming way sooner than you’d like to in the process.

Avoid these anal sex mistakes to really give her an amazing experience.

Avoid these anal sex mistakes to really give her an amazing experience.

Chances are anal sex has always been in your list of things to try when you and your lover are already getting frisky in the bedroom.

And now that you’ve finally convinced your partner to give it a go, it’s really important that you give her an awesome time or else making her say yes to another anal sex session in the near future will be close to impossible.

So make sure you keep these anal sex mistakes to really make the experience as pleasurable for her as it will be for you…

Anal sex mistake #1: Not taking her sexual arousal off the charts.

Unlike the stuff that you see in porn where the women only need a few moments to get ready for anal action, it’s entirely different in real life.

Your partner needs to be really sexually aroused before you can actually penetrate her anus. This is because besides from firing up her adventurous side in bed, she will also feel more relaxed and consenting while at it.

Sexually penetrating your lover in the anus before she is really ready will just be very awkward and uncomfortable for her. And do you think she’ll give it another go if you do it this way?

(Here’s a quick move that you can use to get her going.)

Anal sex mistake #2: Not stocking up on a lot of lube.

The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce natural lubrication like the vagina does, so you’ll need to apply lube to start the party.

No lube means she’ll simply think of the whole experience as a disaster and you don’t want that to happen, do you?

Make it a point to get your hands on a lot of lubrication because apart from having to apply and re-apply frequently as you go along, some varieties tend to dry out quicker compared to their counterparts.

And in case you need a bit of help with how much you’re going to stock up on, try aiming for the amount you think is ideal and double it.

Anal sex mistake #3: Not getting her input as you go along.

Women experience different sensations when their anuses are sexually penetrated. Some may like the whole thing slow and smooth, while others prefer a more energetic pace.

Keep in mind to ask her how she likes it while the action’s going on. Remember that if she’s not getting the pleasure that she expects, your chances of convincing her for another anal sex session will be very low.

Avoid these anal sex no-no's!

Avoid these anal sex no-no’s!

Having a fancy for anal sex isn’t uncommon among guys.

Apart from the promise of experiencing new sensations while the action’s going on, sexually penetrating a woman in the backdoor also takes your excitement levels off the charts.

And now that you’ve finally convinced your lover to give anal sex a go, you’re looking to make the whole thing as enjoyable for her as it will be for you.

But the thing is unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, pulling it off isn’t copying porn star moves. You’re just going to end up making the experience horrible for her before you know it.

Make sure you read on to learn key mistakes that you should keep clear of to give your partner an anal sex session that will be fun and exciting for her, too.

You don’t really fire her up for action in bed.

Anal sex is quite similar to vaginal sex. You need to get a woman as fired up for lovemaking as you can to get her ready for backdoor action.

Unless your lover is really sexually aroused, she’s not going to get in the mood for anal anytime soon.

(Here’s a neat foreplay trick you can use to get her going while we’re on the subject.)

You don’t have a lot of lube ready.

Unlike the vagina that can produce its natural lubrication, the anus needs a bit of help in that department.

Make it a priority to get your hands on a lot of lube to ensure that things are going to be smooth and easy when you sexually penetrate her from behind.

And while we’re on the subject, remember to get twice the amount that you think is ideal.

You go full speed ahead as soon as the action starts.

Sure the temptation to go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance to sexually penetrate her anus, but the best way to do it is slow and easy.

Instead of experiencing pleasurable sensations, she’s just going to feel awkward and uncomfortable in the process.

You don’t ask her to guide you.

Who knows best what will make her feel awesome during anal sex than your lover?

Don’t think that you already know what will make her feel good when you’re already at it because chances are you’re wrong.

Always keep in mind that you let her guide you through the whole thing to make sure that she’s going to really enjoy it.

Keep clear from these anal sex mistakes!

Keep clear from these anal sex mistakes!

So you finally managed to convince your lover to have anal action with you…

But the thing is a lot of guys mistakenly think that going about it is simply sticking it in a woman’s backdoor and pumping like there’s no tomorrow.

Apart from being really uncomfortable for your partner, she’ll just think that you’re the only one getting all the pleasure during the whole thing, which will easily break your chances of convincing her to do it again.

If you’re looking to really give her an awesome time during your anal sex session, make sure you keep clear of these mistakes…

Not really getting her in the mood.

A woman’s sexual arousal level plays a crucial role during anal sex. If she’s not really fired up for lovemaking, she will have second thoughts about it.

Make it a point to really pull out all the stops during foreplay to take her sexual arousal off the charts.

Stimulate her erogenous zones the right way. Give her a foreplay session she won’t forget anytime soon. You’ll be surprised how game she is when the main event arrives.

Not having enough lube.

The anus can’t produce lubrication unlike the vagina. Unless you’ve got enough lube with you when you’re gearing up for anal sex, you’re simply setting yourself up for disaster.

Make sure you got a lot of lube to really keep things smooth and easy for her. Don’t know how much lube you need to prepare? Get your hands on the amount you think is ideal and double the whole thing.

Not gauging her reaction.

Keep in mind how your partner reacts when you sexually penetrate her anus. Stop immediately when she feels uncomfortable. Pick up the pace again when she’s up for action again.

Moreover, always remember that slow and easy does it when you’re already at it. Doing it like crazy only happens in porn movies. Believe me. You’ll be really sorry when you do it in real life.

Not stopping from time to time to reapply lube.

No matter how much lubricant you put on your penis during anal sex, chances are it will thin out and lose its efficacy sooner or later. If you feel it’s not slippery as before, it’s time to put on some again.

Make it a point to reapply it from time to time to make sure things are at their smoothest as you go along…or else you’ll be sorry before you know it.