Still having a tough time scoring that second date?

If you’re anything like most men, you probably went through a date that didn’t go too well once or twice.

I’ve been there quite a few times as well and that prompted me to delve more on how to make myself more attractive to women when I take them out.

What’s really interesting is that I discovered a few significant mistakes that keep men from turning women’s heads in the dating scene over the years. And I’m sure they can help you boost your chances of snagging another date with a woman you like, too.

Make sure you follow along to find out what they are and how you can use them to your advantage without a fuss.

Remember to wear the right pair of shoes.

I’ve learned that if you really want to make the best impression on a woman when you take her out on a date, you can start by going for the right footwear. Women have the tendency to draw out personal attributes of a guy they’re with just by giving his shoes a peek. Let me give you a few examples.

They thought you were sloppy when your shoes look like they’ve been hurriedly cleaned or wiped down. Moreover, women assumed you don’t care about your appearance if your shoes look really worn and are almost breaking up. Keep in mind to wear nice and clean shoes to a date and you’re good to go.

Make oral and dental hygiene a priority.

I’ve come across a psychology book that revealed women are more inclined to be drawn to your teeth when you smile instead of focusing on your face as a whole. This means that if your teeth look unpleasant, there’s a possibility that your date won’t turn out well as you’ve expected.

Make it a point to brush and floss at least twice a day. Besides keeping your pearly whites free from cavities, you’re also going to do away with stains and grime that can discolor your teeth. And poor dental hygiene can lead to erectile dysfunction sooner or later as well.

Make sure your hair is properly groomed.

Although women have different views on the correct length of hair a man should have, they seem to collectively agree that what matters the most is the style it comes in. They don’t want it too slick that it already looks slimy or perhaps too laid back that it already appears frenzied. Style it carefully and properly to get the best results.

Always keep clear from these mistakes when you’re going down on her!

Having oral sex in your bedroom checklist is the way to go if you’re looking to give her an experience she won’t forget anytime soon.

I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that some guys don’t seem to have a clear idea what to do when they’re going down on their partners.

Now while they may have the right intention – and that is to blow a woman’s mind with a barrage of pleasurable sensations from down under – not having a clue of the things that they should avoid during the action easily breaks their chances of pulling it off.

There is even a big possibility that you’re guilty of doing the same mistakes as well.

So if you’re looking to really give your lover an oral sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon, make sure you avoid the following…

Not taking things slow and easy.

Sure you may have seen in porn movies how the male actors almost always zero in on the vagina and clitoris immediately when they get the chance (and make them feel rather ecstatic while at it, too), doing this in real life will just lead to disaster.

See, the clitoris needs a bit of time to get ready for stimulation. Akin to the erectile tissues in the penis that need to firm up first before they can produce pleasurable sensations, this erogenous zone won’t be able to churn out the same if stimulated way sooner than it should.

Make sure that your partner is totally sexually aroused first before you get busy south of her border, too.

Not being as gentle as you can.

Another oral sex mistake that you should always keep clear of is applying too much pressure and going full speed ahead on her intimate areas as soon as you get the opportunity to do so.

Now while applying varying techniques and pressure on her sexy bits is sure to yield different and exciting sensations, simply going fast and furious on them straight away will only lead to less the favorable results.

Keep in mind to go slow and easy to really get her going.

Not asking her for directions while you’re at it.

Although you may now have a general idea of what areas to focus on as well as the techniques that you can do when you’re going down on your partner, don’t hesitate to ask for suggestions from her while you’re at it.

Don’t act as if you already know what there is all to know about oral sex because chances are you don’t.

Remember that she knows what really takes her pleasurable sensations through the roof, so better let her guide you to really get the job done.

Keep an eye on these signs to know if she’s really sexually aroused.

How sexually aroused a woman is plays a key role in giving her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.

Apart from having a significant effect on the pleasurable sensations that your partner will experience during the action, the chances that she’ll achieve orgasm while at it is also on the line.

But the thing is how do you really know if a woman is already – and genuinely – sexually aroused? Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, it’s not that tricky to do.

Make sure you read on to learn 3 key signs that she’s fired up for action between the sheets…

Keep an eye on her breathing.

Perhaps the most prominent sign that your partner is already prepped up for lovemaking is her breathing will become heavier and shallower than usual.

This is one of the effects of the positive hormones that get churned out when her brain detects a certain stimulus that gets her turned on. It could be a smell, a sound or perhaps some sexy eye candy.

It is also not uncommon that her breath will become quite warm when this takes place.

Keep an eye on her body temperature.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already heard of the phrase “hot for sex.” This isn’t just wordplay, though. A woman’s body temperature will actually rise when she gets sexually aroused.

This is because the positive hormones that get released during sexual arousal direct a more than usual amount of blood all over the body. A part of this boosted circulation will go to her pelvic region to get her lady bits down there to start getting in action.

Make it a point to feel her skin while you’re stimulating her body to get an idea if she’s already ready to take things to a whole new level or you still need to fire her up more.

Keep an eye on her lips and body language.

What’s really interesting is I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that women tend to show subtle signs that they’re already sexually aroused.

Besides licking or biting her lips, your partner will also blush, arch their head and back as well as get more touchy-feely in the process.

There are a lot of other gestures that she can exhibit, too. Keep in mind to be more conscious of them while you’re heating her up in the bedroom.

(Make sure you keep an eye on your water intake as well to ensure that you’ll get rock hard on demand each and every time!)

Your sex life could be at risk if you’re really into oily and fatty snacks.

Now while oily snacks are probably on your list of favorite things to munch on, excessively loading up on them won’t just lead to packing on a few extra pounds. Making them a mainstay on your menu will also cause a few other problems that can affect your performance in the bedroom.

I know this sounds crazy right now, but you’ll definitely find out more when you follow along. Here are some cool reasons why controlling your intake of fried chicken, tacos and other greasy edibles can help you stay a good lover.

Your performance in the bedroom can falter sooner or later.

One very important element when it comes to giving a woman the satisfaction she needs between the sheets is staying power, which simply means not getting tired right in the middle of your sex session. Just imagine how disappointed your lover will be when your sexual stamina is already on the low end and she’s still in the mood for action between the sheets.

See, now while oily foods may contain a few calories that the body needs to function properly, the rest of them are of no use to the system. Sure eating them may give you the sensation of being full, but you’re actually not nourished completely and can even have a disastrous effect on your energy levels.

So if you’re looking to really last long in bed, make it a point not to go overboard with the pork rinds and other greasy concoctions you love to eat. They are not energy boosters and will only have the opposite effect on your body.

Your ability to get a strong erection can be compromised before you know it.

Overindulging in oily foods encourages the development of plaque, which is one of the effects when bad cholesterol accumulates in the system. Plaque basically builds up along the passageways of the veins and arteries, which can significantly disrupt the distribution of blood in the body.

And if you’ve been following this blog for a while, you probably have picked up that blood plays a key role in achieving a stable erection. See, during sexual arousal, the brain sends a more than usual amount of blood to the erectile tissues in the penis to get it rock hard. Unless these erectile tissues get the blood they need, you will either have a weak erection or perhaps something to the tune of none at all.

Always keep in mind that while enjoying your favorite oily foods once or twice is alright, making it a daily habit to eat them will only lead to disaster the next time things get hot in the bedroom. Make it a point to munch on healthier stuff like fiber-rich oatmeal from now on to really rise up to the occasion.