Sex Tips

She'll be more eager to go down on you with these pointers.

She’ll be more eager to go down on you with these pointers.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are getting some oral attention from your lover is no doubt one of the things that you look forward to each time the action gets hot in the bedroom.

Besides being very pleasurable, it also makes you feel quite a man. But the thing is your partner seems to be not as eager to blow you like she used to these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet, though. I’ve picked up a few pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may just help bring back her eagerness to give you a blowjob.

Let me explain what I mean…

Be as inviting as can be.

How you look and smell down there can make or break your chances of getting a BJ from her. This is because women are very particular with grooming. If she thinks that your grooming south of the border isn’t up to her liking, she won’t be heading that way to pleasure you anytime soon.

Give her awesome oral sex each time.

Oral sex is a two-way street. It’s either you pull out all the stops when you’re giving it or perhaps get a bad BJ when you’re on the receiving end. There’s even a possibility that her eagerness to go down on you will plummet in the process. Knock her socks off with amazing oral sex each time and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Vocal is the way to go.

Make it a point to really be vocal when you feel the pleasurable sensations during oral sex – and she’s the one giving it. See, apart from giving her the notion that you really like being blown, she will also think that she’s on the right track to giving you a BJ that you’ve always wanted. You can easily guide her while she’s at it, though.

Don’t boss her when you’re hankering for a BJ.

Sure asking her to go down on you is one thing, being bossy about the whole will only lead to disaster. This is because you’ll just end up making her body produce a lot of stress hormones that will make her feel anxious, impatient and awkward. And you’ve already got  a preview of how your oral sex session will turn out. Always make it a point to be gentle with her when you ask her to go down and you’ll be rewarded.

Avoid these fingering mistakes to really knock her socks off.

Avoid these fingering mistakes to really knock her socks off.

Fingering is no doubt one of the most pleasurable moves that you can do when you and your lover are already at it in the bedroom.

Now while you may already have a general idea of what fingering is, I discovered during my extensive research into the female sexuality that a lot of guys seem to overlook a few mistakes that can sap away the pleasure of the whole thing.

So if you’re looking to give her a fingering session that she won’t forget anytime soon, here are a few no-no’s that you should keep in mind…

You start immediately.

The first fingering mistake that we’ll touch on is kicking things off as soon as you get the chance.

Sure you may see this move in porn flicks, but all you’re going to do is make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

This is because the vagina and clitoris need time to prep up so they can really produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.

Give her a foreplay session that she won’t forget anytime soon first and you’re on your way to knocking her socks off while at it.

You don’t trim your fingernails.

Your fingernails can easily make or break your chances at giving her a fingering session that will blow her mind.

Besides significantly reducing the pleasurable sensations that her body is going to churn out while you’re at it, her sexual mood is going to plummet with each stroke you’re going to do as well.

Make it a point to keep your fingernails clean and trimmed before you start the action south of her border.

You only focus on her vagina and clitoris.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, fingering isn’t about stimulating the vagina and clitoris. It also involves taking her sexual excitement levels up a notch in the process.

And one way of pulling this off is keeping her on her toes as you’re bringing your fingering A-game into play.

Don’t just concentrate on her clitoris and vagina when you’re fingering her. Make it a point to stimulate her other erogenous zones like the inner thighs and lower abdomen to intensify the pleasurable sensations she’s experiencing.

You go too fast.

This is another porn flick move that you see in porn. Going too fast when you finger her will just lead to disaster.

Keep in mind to start as slow and easy as you can and you’re on your way to blowing her mind.

Boost your chances of getting head from her when you read this.

Boost your chances of getting head from her when you read this.

Chances are you’ve got “getting a blowjob” from your lover when it comes to the things that you look forward to when the two of you are already at it in the bedroom.

Although you have already convinced your partner to go down on you a lot of times already, you’re simply noticing that she’s not giving you head as much as she used to these days.

There’s no need to get upset yet, though. I discovered a few mistakes during my extensive research into the female sexuality that can prevent a woman from going down on you during lovemaking.

Why don’t you follow along to find out what these are to boost your chances of making her say yes to an oral sex session the next time you’re at it in bed?

You’re not keeping a close eye on your grooming.

How you look and smell is a key factor that women tend to be very particular with. If your lover thinks your grooming down there isn’t up to par, her body is inclined to churn out stress hormones that make her feel anxious.

And not just anxious, too. She’s also going to feel awkward and impatient in the process. I’m pretty sure you already have an idea how you’re oral sex session is going to turn out.

You don’t ask her nicely.

Although women like a guy who shows initiative, giving her the notion that you’re rather bossy in bed can be a big turn off. Make it a point to always ask her as nicely as you can when you’re in the mood for some oral action.

Sure the bossy shtick always works in porn movies, but trying it in real life will just lead to disaster before you know it.

You don’t give her an awesome oral sex session yourself.

Oral sex is basically a give and take situation.

If your lover thinks that she’s the only one exerting an effort when it comes to pleasuring you down under, she won’t be that excited to give you a blowjob session herself.

Always remember to knock her socks off each and every time you go down on her and you’ll be on the right track.

You think of oral sex as a burden.

See, your body tends to produce negative hormones that can affect your sexual mood when you think of giving her oral sex as a burden.

Besides making you feel uncomfortable at doing the whole thing, it can also lead to erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.

These mistakes can make you come way too soon in bed.

These mistakes can make you come way too soon in bed.

I’m pretty sure that you’d like to keep your bedroom playing time going for as long as you can to really blow your lover’s mind.

Apart from boosting your chances of making her achieve an orgasm (or two), you’re also going to be in for an overload of pleasurable sensations while at it.

However, I picked up a few interesting things during my extensive research into the male sexuality that can make you prone to premature ejaculation.

Make sure you read on to learn what these are so you can really give her a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon the next time things get sizzling in bed…

You worry that you’re going to pop way too soon.

I know this sounds surprising right now, but worrying that you’re going to come sooner than you’d like to basically results to the release of stress hormones in your body.

Besides disrupting the time when your brain should activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses, you’re also going to be prone to other sexual issues like losing the power and intensity of your erections in the process.

Keep in mind to stay positive and you’ll be on the right track.

You go full speed ahead as soon as you get the chance.

There is a connection between the amount of penile stimulation you receive during lovemaking and premature ejaculation.

See, if you get fast and furious the moment you sexually penetrate your lover, the levels of positive hormones and neurotransmitters in your body will build up faster than they should and will make you prone to coming sooner than usual.

Keep things slow and easy and you’ll last longer.

You don’t masturbate regularly.

If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that masturbation has a lot of sexual benefits that can help you improve your performance in the bedroom.

One of the best masturbation benefits is helping you become really familiar when your sexual peak kicks in, which acts as your cue to pause for a bit during lovemaking, regroup and carry on later.

Moreover, you can repeat this process over and over during a sex session.

You don’t give her a proper fingering session.

Like the mistake I’ve pointed out earlier, fingering your partner eases off the stimulation your penis receives during lovemaking.

Besides keeping clear from coming too soon, you’re also going to have the opportunity to pleasure her most sensitive erogenous zones while at it.

Definitely a win-win situation if you ask me.